Just wondering if you girls (or guys?) think this is a good gift, my girlfriends coming over tomorrow and i'm planning on giving her this, i was at the mall today and got her a 10karat white gold bracelet (I know 10 karats isn't a whole lot, but we've been going out for 6 months and we're only 17, so its not like i need to get her extremely expensive jewelry, i got this for a decent amount) plus a box of purdy's chocolate, do you think this is pretty decent? just wanting a second opinion, seeing as how i obviously can't ask her
I think it's a great gift. The question is will you regret spending this kinda $ on her if the relationship goes south. 6 months is impressive for someone your age, but from a guy who has already passed through the stage of life you're in now, that's the kinda gift I would've given at the 1 year anniversary. Also be careful with the gift giving in general, don't like give her truck loads of stuff it can be a little overwhelming and in some cases girls can feel bought and that can start arguments. (TRUST me on that one) But this is Christmas so I think you're good.
It sounds like a very nice gift. But like he said don't spend all kinds of money on her. For a relationship like that litle odds and ends are nice and appreciative... but since its christmas and you must really lke this girl it should be ok. You don't want to scare her away like said above by making her feel like your buying her but you also don't want to be taken advantage of. Sometimes girls can be bitches like that. Good luck and hope all goes well. Try saving really expensive gifts until your in the relationship for a longer period of time. My x gave me a promise ring but that wasn't until we were together for about 3 years. Good luck man.
Yeah i know what you guys mean about not spending to much yet and stuff, but its different with her because i've known her for like... about 7 years now? and we've been talking constantly literally every single day for over a year now, but we just recently 6 months ago 'officially' began 'going out' even though we've always liked each other pretty much, well since the last year at least
Ah, well in that case, since you withheld that peace of information. Yeah that seems appropriate. Might also wanna throw in their a picture from of the two of you for memory's sake then. That's my signature move at the sixth month mark...photos in frames, maybe even fitted into a necklace.
I think that is a lovely gift to give her and she will probably be thrilled to bits about it. Merry Christmas!
