Hi all, I have met up with a woman a couple times and we have been texting over the past 4 months. Finally we have some time in our busy schedules to meet up again before Christmas on our break. I was wondering do l give her a small gift or card for xmas? I really still have no idea of where it's going with her so l look at her as a new friend who l enjoy conversation with. I have told her l do like to write poems in cards with a small gift for my special friends so l'm thinking if l don't get her something she might feel she's not special....on the other hand l don't want her to feel like l'm coming on too strong by giving a gift to someone l have only seen a couple of times, but l feel like over our texting the last 4 months l have grown to know what kind of person she is. What would you girls do, l know it's not the biggest problem in the world but l thought would just ask for any suggestions.
I say get her something. It's Christmas, you can't really not accept a gift around this time of the year. I don't think you'll come off as too strong it's not like it's Valentine's day or anything. Who knows, she may have something for you too. And if she doesn't I wouldn't concentrate about it too much. It's always nice to know someone's thinking about you.
Thanks everyone for your reply's! l wrote a nice poem to give her in a card, hope she likes it Happy Holidays to you all! Alley
Aww I want a card, lol. I never thought I liked those things but I really do. It will also show her a special side of you.
