Hi people i have been with my gf for 9 years and we tried anal once many years ago and she said never again, i have a mad thing for girls ass's and i cant stop looking at girls bums in leggins etc. Latley i have found myself watching loads of anal porn and i really really want to fuck a girl hard in the ass. I don't want to cheat on her but i feels my only option - do many girls on here do/enjoy anal?
no man dont cheat on her bro thats bad! you gotta try to convince her... talk to her, take it easy ... cheating is not a solution its just another problem man good luck :2thumbsup:
dude shes got to be into it or it dosnt work "she has to want it up her ass". Get her a small vibe or small butt plug and loads of lube warm her up. The butt plug was the key for us she wanted it but it but the butt plug play when she masterbated herself got her use to the feel of something there. After that she was nuts for it. Vaginal was uncomfortable for most wemen at first too, ask her how painfull vaginal was the first few times. She has to train for this you cannot run a marathon your first day in the gym. You want an anal slut she has to be into it or its not gonna work. Does she like her ass played with or is it a no fly zone? good luck
i do lick her ass whilst licking her out but if i try touching it or putting a finger up even really slowly she goes mad, her ass is so fucking nice aswel i just want to fuck it so hard
When we were younger she would go that extra mile to pleasure me and do anything, these days (well couple of years) we dont have sex no where near as much, i want it all day everyday as i find her so feckin fit, lol but im lucky if i get it once a week
If she knows you're into it, and you've been together 9 years and she's not interested in letting you try it then she doesn't want it. You have to 2 reasonable solutions, 1. you can get over it and live without anal or 2. you can dump her and find a girl who does.
My question is what happened when you did try it once shes very against it. Just saying if the 1st time wasn't slow and hurt like hell I wouldn't want it again. But don't cheat man......makes a bigger mess. So either try talking to her about it, and let her know how much you really want to try it again and that you will take it at her pace if she wanted to try again. or Get one of them toy things.......
You need to get her drunk so she will be more receptive to a second try at anal. If it goes well the second time, she'll be hooked.
It can fail a hundred times, but when anal sex works just that one time, she'll be hooked and it does get better every single time. I think you need to let her know just how much this means to you, let her see the emotion on your face. don't play it off.
Dude, I can't believe you wasted all those years. Did you count how many anal whores you passed during that time?
I second that. Through the years I have turned many virgins into anal whores. The key is in the mind.
14-23 huh? Damn, that's crazy you stayed a couple.. I mean you've only ever been with 1 girl? You should go out there and explore, I bet you'd regret it if you don't.