If a 30something man said he's never been really into oral

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by LillyR, Dec 4, 2011.

  1. LillyR

    LillyR Guest

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    receiving that is, .... I mean, that's weird right?:confused:
     
  2. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    Sort of but i've heard women say the same. It's possible he has never gotten a good blowjob though, hence his reluctance.
     
  3. smip

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    It could be a bad experience or even molested as a child...


    I once had a girl "suck me off" and thats what she tried worst blowjob ever had a hickey on the end of my dick... hurt like hell, then had to stay away from girlfriend till it went away.
     
  4. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i have lied about it because i didnt want to put my mouth on her dirty poonanny...i also have lied cause i didnt want her dirty mouth on my pecker..its more polite to lie..no reason to hurt a girls feelings....go wash up just to make sure its not ''you''
     
  5. The Backdoor Man

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    He probably doesn't like teeth.
     
  6. LillyR

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    Don't say that. The thought already crossed my mind. :(

    After the first couple of times I went down on him, he said it was too "delicate" and he liked it hard and rough. So I did that. Some suckage was involved (mostly out of my frustration from my previous failed attempts) And it still doesn't seem to be great for him. I really don't know what to do. I have tried all sorts of things that I have read about, seen in porn, 'heard' about on forums like this etc... It's not for lack of trying!

    During intercourse he finishes less than half the time. He originally said that he had sensitivity problems, but has now backed off from that and acts like everything is fine. I have asked him in every way I can think of what he would like me to do, do differently, not do and he won't really say. I'm at my wit's end!
     
  7. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    Maybe he thinks it's degrading for a woman to do it, maybe he feels it's something he should say, maybe he had a horrible experience once or twice, maybe he's gay
     
  8. FritzDaKatx2

    FritzDaKatx2 Vinegar Taster

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  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Quite the puzzle, I cant work it out either. Its like rocket science, but without the rockets or the differential calculus
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it's unusual, although i wouldn't go so far as weird.

    so the bad bj was from someone other than your girlfriend?
     

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