Dreams are still an unknown territory when it comes to meaning. But I had a dreams in the past couple of weeks that have revolved around a girl I liked, that I thought I got over a couple of months ago. But it turns out, nope! I still like her.. I don't know if this dream was a reflection of what I felt, or a signal of what I feel, but now I find myself thinking about her again, as if this dream were a pre-cognition and I want her so badly all of the sudden. I felt over her, without even thinking about her for MONTHS, and now I'm back on her... Dreams are a weird thing, and I hope it was somehow a warning telling me I have a chance now or something.. because she said she wasn't looking for a relationship before. Does anyone have personal experience that could relate to the matter? I feel like I found something I lost track of, a feeling, a desire.. maybe it means nothing, maybe it means the world.. however it's driving me crazy.
Yea i would have to agree with rollinstoned. I think it could be a symbol or sign to talk to her again. perhaps she has been thinking of you and her thoughts have projected into your dreams. Try it out man. Send her a text or message on facebook or something. Perhaps she wants to talk to you and she to scared to or doesn't know how to approach you about it. I follow my signs from my dreams and it has never led me astray
I'd love to tell you the story of my current relationship and how she had to get over not having me and vice versa like six times. And how we were still best friends through this. And now we're extremely happy, its scary how far ahead we've planned, it feels right. It's an absurdly long story, if you like I'll make a post about it somwhere, it just shows that you need to stick to my new philosophy with relationships: If you really feel that you two can go somewhere and no other alternative feels right, just keep at it. In the last round of us chasing each other, it was me chasing her, and it took an entire summer, lots of tears, and a few huge secrets to be exposed, but it paid off. Just don't give up if you think she could be the one (if you believe in that) because I can't even begin to describe how glad I am I didn't. Best of luck to you friend!
She's also came up in one my recent LSD trips, because I started to accept that I do like her again, and I decided to just throw myself in her life a litte more, and see where things go. I'll just shoot her a compliment or make a little small talk every once in awhile, to show I'm still there. She seems to take to them very well, and now she seems to purposefully "bump" into me every once in awhile, just to say hi. Just walk my way or something. I asked to dream of her last night, to see what I'm doing. Amazingly my wish came true, and I found myself in her bedroom (btw I've never actually been there or seen it) and she was sitting at a chair in front of her desk, kind of showing me around, it was very calm. And we started to eat grapes as we just calmly talked to each other. It kind of seemed like I was "making progress" so to speak. Now were both beginning to open up to each other emotionally, still unaware of each others lives however. Just opening up in the sense for further actions/words. I don't know what she thinks now, because she knew I wanted to go out with her before, but then she asked just to be friends. I don't know if girls ever change their mind about that stuff, but I don't want to "stalk" her or force her into anything. Which is what I thought on my acid trip, which led me to think that just showing up in her life in small bits could make her more .. comfortable around my prescene. And according to my dream, that is what has seemed to happen. And I'd love to see the story stimulantz
Alright I'll get to work on it here in a little bit, if I recall there's a relationships forum here. Then I'll post a link. And I can say for a fact that girls definitely do change their minds about just wanting to be friends, you'll see that in my story, and yay for progress!:2thumbsup:
Well you have to understand that maybe she liked you but didn't want to rush into anything and that why she said she just wanted to be friends. Love is a very weird feeling and situation. Just be her friend man...do not rush into anything because, if you and her are meant to be you will be. If worse comes to worse you got a good friend out of it
