Why are guys so fucking complicated?

Seriously; Argh!!

I've been into him a long time already, and he knows it (i've been giving some signals and stuff) so then we had this party yesterday and he hugged me and I dont know, friends stuff.

But then everytime he passed through me he would touch my belly and I would smile and you know, cute things like that; so I was almost sure he was gonna come up to me and you know, something would happen like a kiss haha
HOWEVER, suddenly he just grabs me and tries to kiss me? but of course I refused, because even though I like him, I still have my dignity haha I am not gonna kiss him right away!!!
So I kinda avoided it, but not like PUSHING him away, but you know, slightly pushing him away haha and then he just walked away, not even looking at my face to say something!

I was really worried, so I started to look for him, and I found him with another fucking girl! HE WAS NOT DRUNK.

WHAT THE FUCK? does he want me? why did he do that? why are guys so fucking complicated?
Will he ever talk to me again? Or should I go talk to him?!

 

guys don't take well to rejection.

 

Sounds to me like he's a little bit shy and the touching in a friendly way and the smiling was his build up to try to get to know you better and then, when he thought it was cool he "dived in". The kissing the other girl was a combination of hurt and a ploy to make you jealous. Me thinks he likes you

 

So it's already for him to caress your belly but not kiss you? Make up your mind girl!

Women are the complicated ones. They come to you asking for advice but they don't want your advice at all, they just want you to listen.

Guys are easy to understand. Six pack of beer and Sunday's football game, what's there to understand?

 

hahaha
He CAN kiss me if he wants, but he has to come slowly and not like, GRAB me like he did -nonsense and so complicated :afro:

 

hum, it wasn't actually a rejection... I guess.. but I mean, he was pretty reckless..

 

stereotipical junk, pass the cola man!
seriously though we guys can be complexed but not near the extent of girls.
to the OP, if you liked him why drop hints, most men (around 92%) can't handle or understand them, we are vary verbal so talk and be direct.

 

huh. if you can't figure that one out you might need a brain transplant.

 

well, next time there is a potential of making out with some guy, give him an instruction book on how exactly he may kiss you, so the poor guy would know in advance.

and you call guys complicated.

 

Are you kidding? Hahaha I always thought you guys could get them, specially if they are VERY CLEAR (hopefully)...
Oh well, living and learning :sunny:

 

Hahahaha in some point you are right
HOWEVER, well he should've done like all the guys usually do
at least he should've told me that he was going to make a move! and not do it like a surprise and shit...

 

some guys are more passionate than others. i for one love it when a guy just takes me, no warning at all (of, course i have to be attracted to him, wouldn't work if i didn't like him). i've gone from nothingness to sex like that. one minute we're sitting on separate couches just talking and the next we're in his bed all over each other

 

You're the one being fussy and complicated, not him.

How's he supposed to know your preferred method of being kissed?
He's done all/most of the work (Hurraay, you sent signals), including making the first move, then you complain he couldn't read your mind and also do it your way.

:|

 

Haha agreed!.

 

What?! I would dig it if a woman I liked surprised me like that!

 

...he was with another girl because you rejected him hardcore! I'm sure he thinks that you don't want anything to do with him now.
You should have just kissed him no matter how he came at you.

Its possible that he was touching you because he does that to all girls. Maybe he is a man slut.

 

I was finally able to edit my post into something that captured my disgust yet wasn't super angry :sunny:

 

this is the most ridiculous fucking thing i've ever read. i can't even respond, because it would just turn into an attack.

why can't i just be attracted to penis?

 

Guys, are you serious? Haha damn I didnt know how i made things worse I am so dumb hahaha well, I guess there is nothing I can do about it right... Just let everything flow the next time!
Thank youu for all your advices haha

 

Yeah you made him feel completely rejected girl. Its not a bad thing that you pushed him away and didn't take well to the way he tried to kiss you....but at least let a guy know!

I was on a date with a guy once and we were in a bar - he just came up and grabbed my face without warning and tried to kiss me. I drew back and told him I didn't want our first kiss to be in a bar surrounded by all these drunk people. If I had just drew back without explanation he probably would have found someone else to kiss, but I explained my reasoning and he told me that was actually really cool of me. And later gave me a really sweet kiss when we were alone.

Neither sexes are really all that complicated once they learn how to communicate with each other.