Im on a teenager but everytime my gf puts her hand down there i seem to ejaculate quite fast and once i wasnt even properly erect, what can i do ??
it will pass with practice and concentration....some dudes jerk off in the bathroom before hand so as to get that first load out of the way....its just because its a new experience and takes getting used to like anything else
but watch out if you jerk off before to use a condom! because even if you wash your dick some sperm will still remain in the your dick channel and its a chanse to let you miss pregnant
surely that's all the more reason not to first jerk-off into a condom - that will tend to restrict the sperms firing and leave more in the channel To the OP I'd say just relax and spend time playing together first - talk to her about it - that will in itself reduce some of the physcological pressure. Good luck, Simon :sunny:
Sebo- Check out my thread on Premature Ejaculation in this Sexual Health forum, as almost 26,000 other guys have done, and see if that helps you. Let me know...
I remember when there was no refractory period. Yes, I'd cum, but I'd stay hard and keep going. The second time was a long time coming (no pun intended; well, okay, maybe it was intended, but true nonetheless). Besides, even if there was a refractory period, so what? 10, 20 minutes? More foreplay. Keep going. Don't quit. Tell her she is so HOT you could not control yourself but you're ready for round two, so start sucking, baby! God, I wish I had your youth and your problems. If I could only go back knowing what I know now!