Help me figure this guy out?

So long story short, we've been texting non stop for two weeks and then he stops all of a sudden for three days. He initiates it most of the time, but the last time we talked i texted him first. I know that it thanksgiving and things are hectic...but i mean he's been pretty....."active" haha on facebook.

We have a freakin TON in common and we seem to click haha. He's asked me to hang out twice but has never specified when. And he's super flirty ALL THE TIME. haha


Am I expecting to much for just two weeks? I mean, hasn't something supposed to have happened by now? Should I ask him if he wants to hang out?

Has he lost interest?

Gah. this is frustrating haha

Oh, he's almost 20 and I'm 17.

Thanks a bunch guys

 

could be a lot of things. how did you respond to his hang out requests and flirtations? maybe he thinks he's moving too fast/being too clingy for you. maybe he's worried because you're a minor and he's not (although i think he'd be in the clear, those laws are confusing and the risk is pretty great). maybe you were his second choice and the first choice came through. any number of possibilities.

 

to put it blunt: hes looking for sex/u to hang with. ur not responding in the way he wants maybe write on his wall like ;hey stranger call meee; (an actual msg. i got i loved it lol)

 

C'mon ladies, it's simple. He doesn't wanna appear too clingly/keep beggin' ya for it.

Enjoy and good lucks.

 

Just ask him to hang out and see what he says

 

Gotta say, just friends. I see this all the time with the people around me. Sorry, I don't think it is much more than that

 

you should consider that he might have been flirting with 2 girls at the same time and the other girl won...its rare but it happens

 

call him up, invite him over have your wicked way with him... though it'd probably be the other way round and don't get attached.

 

is it really that rare? i know in my case, i don't think i've ever had just one girl at a time show interest in me; normally no one is interested, then as soon as one is, so is at least one more.

 

Well he obviously seems into you, ask him to do something you both have a mutual interest in?

 

Like most are saying he most likely doesnt want to come off as clingy or was scooped up by some other girl he had been talking too. Perhaps he already had a girlfriend the whole time. I have seen all of these scenerios unfold. Good luck though!