She won't go down on me!?!

talk to her about - fuck it

it's important to have a healthy sex life

"take heart my lovely - or allow me to take it from you" :frown:

 

He won't answer that question so I do beleive that it is safe to say . HE DOESN'T GIVE ORAL. You can't expect to recieve if you don't give!

 

Goes both ways, especially in financial terms. She can't expect to receive the goods if she does not give what she is supposed to.

 

refusal to answer pertinent questions is a very common sign of trolling.

 

True.

 

I noticed you didn't say anything about going down on her! If you are not then you have nothing to complain about for starters! The girl I am with wasn't big on going down at the beginning of our relaitionship! I however would go down on her forever which she loved! So more and more she started doing it to me! Got to the point where I found her spots and she squirted for the first time in her life! That opened everything up when it comes to oral for us! She does not hesitate to go down on me ever anymore and has become quite good at it as well! The more you learn to give the more you should receive! Don't make it all about you and you may get a better result! Also very importent keep yourself clean shaven and clean at all times! Nobody enjoys going down on a hairy dirty mess!

 

The surefire way to be lousy in bed is to be a ME person.

 

No I don't. I talked to her last night and she said she was just afraid of not knowing what to do. I still won't go down on her and she's fine with that. Problem solved

 

You are a selfish lover then.

If my man didn't give me oral no way in hell I would be sucking him off.



And I call bullshit on her excuse too........ she was just saying what you wanted to hear. After "the talk" did she give ya one?........... or wait you did get it to shut ya up, and now you won't see it again for another year.

 

I would have thought a selfish lover was one who didn't listen to what his/her partner says. If she says she doesn't know what to do, then is is not selfishness to ignore that and impute some other reason, such as the lack of reciprocity?

 

i do my half ?...to me that means he eats her pussy,no?

 

She's just being a bitch and trying to make me out to be the bad person. She just wants to have an argument with someone. guess things aren't going too well in her social life.

 

You're right, I was never supposed to ever receive pleasure from sex. it should be all about her and no one else because of course there aren't 2 people involved. I'm never suppose to have desires or make a request oh how I forget

 

And with that attitude I wouldn't suck your cock if ya paid me.

 

Oh gosh i'm so bummed now. my world has collapsed, perhaps i'm suicidal at this point. oh no.

 

Does she take it up her butt ? Try that one with her. Who knows, she might like that. A lot of women do.

 

She likes when I finger there lol but she says she isn't 100 percent comfortable with the idea. but i know she definitely likes stimulation there. i definitely would never push that issue but I am curious about anal

 

seems the original question was answered.

you don't give.. you don't get. talk to her.