So I met a girl about a week ago. She gave me her number and said if I ever wanted to talk to text her. So I texted her and we hung out for a couple hours. It went well I think. At the end I walked her to class and she hugged me. But I don't know if it was just friends hanging out or if it was something more. I'm trying to stay cool because last time I thought there was something there with someone there wasn't. I just don't want to play it so safe that I miss out on someone great. Any suggestions on how to approach my situation?
That's hard to say from just going out for a couple of hours. I always think after hanging out for 3-4 times then you may get more of an idea on this. What are her texts like....does she flirt a little bit with you? Ask her to do something and maybe you will be able to get more signals from her
ok thanks. Anybody have suggestions of places/things we could do that are things friends do but could be date-like too???
Ask her to do something so you can talk, maybe over coffee or drinks where it's a relaxing setting. If you like to play pool that's always fun, you can give her tips? lol. I wouldn't ask her out for dinner yet, until you get to know her better and know where it's going, save a dinner date for later. Be yourself and have fun. Hope this helps you
As ^ posted, I would suggest taking her to a coffee shop or something. You know, somewhere laid-back. Ask her questions and look into her eyes a lot. Get to really know her. Flirt but be......subtle about it. Meaning, touch her arm or hand or whatever.
