Did losing your virginity change you in any way?

Losing it turned me into a horny hound dog.

 

Same here. I mean I was always pretty horny but after I lost my virginity I wanted sex all the time, and sometimes masturbation just doesn't cut it for me anymore.

 

I can relate, sort of. It was bitter regret I fell for her so quickly. I had fooled around before but never went all the way before I met her. Having passionate sex with this girl made me extra clingy and possessive of her and I was insecure the entire time. It turned her off and she lost interest in me quick. I blame it on being sexually assaulted as an early teen; it could have led to my shyness and sexual insecurities. I lived in denial about it all my life, not even my family knows about it, that being why I didn't lose my virginity until my early 20s. Looking back I wish I could have told her that might have been the reason why she was my first, because she was shocked about it and I think she saw it as a negative trait about me.

But yes, after that sex is now great and wonderful with other people.

 

no felt right and i no i loved her

 

It made me want to try again to see if I could figure what the big deal was. It took awhile, but I finally figured it out. :devil: Sex is good, but only if you know what you're doing.

 

Losing my virginity made me aware of the nature of sexuality. It made femininity an adjective easier to adquire. Sex is a natural act humans have to go through at least once in their life time. Virgin is an adjective to describe an early stage of life.

 

I only lost my virginity a little over a year ago. I was 19 and for me it was a huge priority, but it didn't really seem like it was that big of a deal afterward. Up until that point, being a virgin really bothered me. I never got any grief about it from my friends or peers, but it made me feel very inadequate. It made me feel quite depressed and it was something that was always on my mind. I spent years getting myself so worked up about it, when I finally slipped it in for the first time, I was expecting a life changing experience. However, I didn't really notice any change afterwards. Sure I felt buzzed and giddy, but not different fundamentally.

So I realized that I had gotten myself worked up all this time over nothing really. For anyone who feels the same as I did, I assure you, it is nothing worth getting depressed about. It will happen when it happens, but until then, smile, be happy, and live a rich life. I regret the feelings so much, they really held me back in high school and I think I could have had a much richer high school experience if I had not let it bother me so much. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self to cheer up and not let it get me down.

That being said, finally losing my virginity was a huge weight off of my chest. While there was no immediate change, I have noticed an improvement in my confidence, demeanor, and overall happiness over time. By no longer having fear and worry over my virginity on my mind all the time, it has allowed me to live more in the now. I'm now much more friendly, talkative, etc. It really helped me get out of my shell and show my true colours.

I should stress though that it was not inherently sex that made me feel better, it was the relief from not worrying about being a virgin anymore. So for you virgins who are feeling insecure, try not to worry, and just live happily. Relationships and friendships are much richer, life-changing experiences compared to just having sex.

 

If anything, it just made me more comfortable with sex. Afterwards I remember wondering what the big deal about it was. I also realized that building a relationship was more fulfilling and worthwhile than worrying about sex.

It was a bit of a rite of passage though.

 

I found out how much of a horn dog I am, but other than that no, no change just wanted more

 

I felt like shit.... Relieved I'd managed to rid of what I saw as the burden of my virginity, but somehow also disappointed in myselfl....

 

whatever for?

 

I think it changed me in a way. Made things more complicating at the time. I lost mine right before my 16th birthday after a Christian concert lol. I'm so on my way to hell lol...but I'm going to enjoy myself while I'm here! ;-)

 

It made me a slut

 

I was strictly girls (sex wise) before I gave away my V-Card. I was actually scared of penises haha. I was scared of the pain, and all that. But when it happened, it was amazing for me. It was my first vaginal orgasm (and unfortunately, my last so far) and it made me more open about sex and way more adventurous. I was excited to try all sorts of new things with my partner.
But at the same time, I felt like I lost some of my values - some of the things that made me respectable. I'm inclined to sleep with a guy I'm attracted too before even dating them, it sorta just leads into it. I don't give up my switch all around, and even though I haven't slept with a lot of men I feel like every time I do - it's one too many.
So I guess all in all, it changed me both positively and negatively. It made me more open and adventurous, but also lowered a lot of my boundaries.

 

I see, I had somewhat of a connection with my first, not to strong but eh, like you I wanted it out of the way. Waited till I was old enough to drink, seemed lone enough. I sill say I got a confidence boost from it, she got off three times before I was done then said it was hard to believe I was a virgin. One thing I will note, they say girls associate sex with attachment, happens to guys too, that didn't end to well

 

I don't feel that losing my virginity changed me, BUT having found out that my gf's slutty past bled into the first year of our relationship, I feel utterly dumb for having not lost it sooner. In essence, the sex didn't change me but the attitude differences I've encountered have. All I really wanted was a good committed woman to share my life with - cheating always used to be bad and immoral, but now I find myself feeling that the only way to ease my pain is to screw other girls behind her back, get my number up...I never believed in a million years that I would ever feel this way and it's utterly horrible.

 

Absolutely changed me. Opened me up to a depth of connection and feeling I hadn't known before.

It's a drug.

 

Was 10. Diminished the importance of kick-ball considerably.

 

As soon as i lost my virginity,,,well i wanted to get laid again. and again. and again. and hopefully the next morning.