I just spent 4 monthes with a girl who had signs of this there i a book you should read "I hate you don't leave me" It's a very hard thing to understand and she made me fall in love with her all while I lost my own self trying to rescue her and our relationship from herself she ended it a week or so ago and now my life is in the toilet
I'm sorry. It is very hard to be in a relationship when borderline exsits. For the person who has it and for the partner. Yeah, I read the book, "I hate you don't leave me". I also have read, "Get me out of here" That is a great book, a memior.
I posted a couple of stories under the "relationship" forum one is "WTF is going on" and another is "what's up witht his girl" they should explain what I'm saying please give me your feedback it would really help me cause I'm really screwed up as of now
chakkname, i'm curious as to how she made you fall in love with her... anyway. i also have bpd. but i dont think most people would ever guess because i'm extremely introverted and i've noticed that most people tend to associate bpd with extroverted personalities.
not a very easy thing to explain.. i'm not sure what direction to point you in other than the dsm criteria, though there's a lot more to mental disorders than what makes up the criteria for diagnosis. http://www.borderlinepersonalitytoday.com/main/dsmiv.htm
