You told her you want to get a dude to smoke your bone, and now she thinks you are gay and won't talk to you? And she won't smoke your bone because she thinks you have been sticking it in other people, and smoking their bones too? Is that it? Sounds like she has trust issues and hates gays.
If you mentioned to your wife how much you want a blowjob and she still won't oblige, then you are justified to seek it elsewhere. Best option is to swap with a buddy in a similar situation - one that you can trust and who would be open to it.
man i dont see the problem here... just go and talk to her... i dont see why wouldnt she suck your dick, you know, shes your freakin wife man... if she says no, then there more things wrong...
Hell I wouldn't ever marry a woman who wouldn't suck dick!!! I would stop dating a woman if she told me she didn't suck dick!!! Fuck that she way to much of a prude. I mean seriously.
I don't think every women wants a cock in their mouth....maybe it doesnt turn her on ..or she's just not interested at all
Seems to me that if she used to do it, there must be a reason for her no longer doing it. Perhaps begin by asking her that. If she genuinely doesn't care, as you say in another post, then one option is to stop doing things that she likes. A bit juvenile, but it may be less damaging than going elsewhere. If that doesn't work, and you end up knee deep in unwashed underwear and the lawn is so high you need a compass to find the door, then it may seriously be time to consider your future. If she really doesn't care enough about your happiness (and your penis), then you may think she isn't the right life partner. Or you could just get a 50 buck hooker.