Lesbians or bisexuals who have had sex with both: Girls or Guys?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by YouFoundMe, Nov 7, 2011.

  1. YouFoundMe

    YouFoundMe Guest

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    It would seem girls might be the obvious answer for lesbians, but what about those unsure of their orientation.
    If you'd slept with both sexes, who did you feel more of an emotional connection to? And putting that aside, which one felt PHYSICALLY better?

    I've only had sex with one guy who was my best friend. It didn't "gross me out" but i had no emotional connection, and was basically bored the whole time.
    My girlfriend (before she came out) had 3 boyfriends whom she had sex with. But she tells me she did not enjoy it at all, and they basically pressured her into it which is believable since they were all asses.

    Since vaginal stimulation does nothing for me unless my g-spot is being touched (like fingered), i find it highly unlikely that although i could get turned on by a guy in porn, I don't think real life would be anything like that. Plus, I can't really get off with someone unless I like them.

    So...
    Whos better in bed, guys or girls?
     
  2. howlyourname

    howlyourname Member

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    Lol that's easy.
    Guys.
     
  3. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    hmm......... as a bisexual guy - a difficult one. I'm more emotionally attached to women but my sex ratio has been 2:1, women:men, though I am lucky to have been with about 100 sexual partners im my life.

    But sex..........? I think I just love the human body with all the variety and bits. I'm very oral and love eating both cocks and fannies. Perhaps the only plus that men have is that I can enjoy penetration - sure I could get my wife to use a strap-on I suppose but the thought of a 'dead' bit of silicone does not do it for me; nothing like a live thrusting cock orgasming inside me.

    But guys have no breasts............

    I'll just stick to both and enjoy the difference! :)

    Simon :sunny:
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    so did they rape or blackmail her? or did they just attempt to have sex with their girlfriend and she agreed to it, then decided she wasn't attracted to them so suddenly they're asses who basically forced her into sex?
     
  5. YouFoundMe

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    Their attitudes in general are what make them assholes, not their decision to want sex. Personally, i think if a guy threatens to break up with a girl for not having sex with him, then he's an ass. But hey, that's just me. And yes, one did rape her once.

    The other times she went along with it. What i mean is, she never wanted/initiated it, but she did agree. Except for one time when she was just held down and forced to.

    So a bit of both.
    She always "knew" she was not attracted to them. But with her family, she dated them to be "normal" or atleast try to make herself like them.
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    if what he wants out of the relationship is sex, and sex is out of the question, then it seems nicer to break up with her than string her along while secretly resenting her.
     
  7. YouFoundMe

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    Well, she dumped all of them, so. I guess it worked out either way.
     
  8. MellowDonna

    MellowDonna Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I've been with both girls and guys. I find some girls attractive, more so when I'm aroused. Overall my preference is guys. I don't seek out girls, but when my husband and I are with another couple, I usually connect with the other girl at some point. I like girls' softness, caressing, smell, taste. Guys just make me feel really secure. I like that. It's hard to explain why you're attracted to one group but not another. My preference is definitely guys.
     
  9. Liara

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    I'm bisexual but tend to find girls more attractive. I also prefer sex with girls, and just the thought of another girls body against mine gets me going!
     
  10. triona_b

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    I'm slightly bisexual in practice. I like sex with men and women and don't really compare them exactly. For me they're complementary. Sex with a man (or with more than one man!) is a very different physical activity than sex with a woman. I couldn't say that I like sex with a man better than sex with a woman, and some of my most memorable sexual encounters have been with women but I tend to have much more sex with men than women so thats what makes makes me only "slightly" bi-
     
  11. Anksunamun

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    I've been with both. Here's what I've come up with:
    Clitoral orgasms? GIRLS
    Vaginal orgasms? GUYS
    Which turns me on more? GIRLS.
    Which is more likely to make me cum? GIRLS.

    Girls know what their doing when it comes to down south since they're carrying the same equipment.
    But guys are physically able to hit the spot wayyyy deep in the back (unless of course your female has toys)
    I'm more inclined to think sexual thoughts about a hot female walking down the road then a male.
    And girls are more likely to make me cum because males, tend to get a bit softer after cumming and or need a break which really kills it all. In my opinion and orgasm is a build up sort of thing, if you stop and take a break you lose it.
    girls don't need breaks.

    But I do very much so prefer vaginal over clitoral any day.
    So I don't know, they both are good at what they can do I suppose.
     

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