Secret lover

I was fucking my secret lover at his apartment. Something on the tv caught my eye. I glanced over and realize he was filming us. Neither of us said anything as I don't think he knows what I saw. I don't know how to feel about it and I don't know if I should confront him about it. What should I do?

 

Silence is acceptance. Absolutely, you should talk to him about it. Filming you without your permission is illegal. Tell him you found that to be a huge invasion of privacy and you don't feel you can trust him.

And end it. If he'll do something like that, he's a dog.

 

The minute I seen that I would have stopped and flipped out!!

No way not cool esp. if he didn't ask 1st

 

Tread carefully. If he will film without permission, he may use the images without permission.

Tell him that you saw the TV, and you thought it was really hot. Ask for the disc/USB/whatever that it was stored on.

Then-and ONLY then, and only when you are sure there are no other copies-dump him quicker than an elected politician breaks a promise.

Dumping him before you get your hands on the footage is a sure way to end up on some random "home grown" porn site. And that's cool, if you want to be there. But I'm thinking you don't want to, which is why i suggested a method of getting the film.

Good luck.

 

Choose your "secret" lovers more wisely?

Why is he a "secret" anyway? Sounds like you're both hiding things to me.

 

why would you fuck someone you're afraid to admit even having as a friend?

if he had your video playing live on the tv, was he really trying to hide it? how could you have possibly missed it?

 

Post a pic of yourself and I'll look for you on youporn

 

I'm married. I guess that says it all.

 

We are friends, we talk a lot after sex and text. I don't really know what our "relationship" is. I wish I knew.

 

First thoughts would be to, speak to him straight and directly, putting him in his place and obtaining the film may well give you initial peace of mind,
However,
The conspiracy theorist asks if; he was/is aware of the camera,
The paranoid muses if there have been more occasions when the camera has been in use.
The concerned voyeurism-ist wonders with how many others and
The Cynic pauses to think what woulf he do, if pushed into a corner.
Tread carefully, wether you decide to continue a relationship with somebody who you will always have trust issues with

 

LOL! I don't think so.

 

personally i'd say you are quite a poor judge of character.

that's pretty disrespectful if true.

 

ya i would never record us having sex..... where you could find the camera....lol only kidding...

 

I don't know what to say to you , because I know any woman will stop right there and question him about it. Now he have you on camera>>>end up on a porn site>>>your husband finds out.

Sucks to be you.



btw cheating is bad

 

"secret lover" ?

Id have to say it's Karma

and if you didnt say anything to him about it then that means you wanted to be recorded..

 

Well I hate to say it but after this be very careful.

He's got blackmail material now.....

If i were in your shoes I'd be telling your husband before he sees you online.

 

It's gunna be a bitch when hubby finds you online, while fapping, because you don't put out in the first place, because you're off fucking secret guy/thing/whatever.

Not getting up and demanding the media from the camera that instant means you'll never get it now. And he probably did it before. And he's making money on you, and will make more when he starts needing cars to keep the tape out of hubbys hands.

 

So your married but fucking another guy? and the only thing your worried about is being filmed? You have bigger problems than being secretly recorded...

 

sounds like "cuckolder and cuckoldress."


is he friends with your husband too? maybe hubby put him up to this.