For guys and girls: can you hold you orgasm as long as you want? What is the act of your partner, the magic spot that send you over the edge anyway? I can resist from cumin while I fuck my gf hard, but if she touch my nipples I suddenly explode, can resist it! I also cannot hold on anymore if during handjob\blowjob she squeeze hard my balls or play with my ass!
I unintentionally edge. But as soon as my boyfriend goes near my asshole, or if I'm getting myself off and he comes and licks my clit, gone.
Sometimes - One has no choice "When the feelin cums upon you like a tidal wave" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfM2no3iDN4&feature=like-suggest&list=UL"]Meatloaf - Paradise by the Dashboard Light.wmv - YouTube Ah Yes "Back in the day" - Manchester Apollo 1977 Karla Devito and Meat, maybe you had to be there(?) Hmm
There I have actually read that you can hold your load but with some practice. You can exercise your pc muscle and learning how to breathe it also helps.. But with a male its a little different females do kegals. You can practice by stopping your urine flow When you pee. If you can stop it you have a strong pc muscle. Italso helps to hold your load if, you switch positions when your starting to feel it coming. And you can stop for 10-20 seconds before you are about to go you can press the head of your penis with your thumb is effective also. Hope this helps you.
There's another thread about a commune in Oakland that offers classes showing you exactly how to get a woman to come for an hour... They demonstrate it on a live woman of course! Oakland Morehouse it's called. Check it out! :0) You can ask the woman questions while she's orgasming... Now if they could just do that with men... (yes, I know Kama Sutra and kundalini... right!)
I always try to take it slow but have never been very successful - there is always a 'tipping' point of no return isn't there; still keen to learn - all tips welcome Simon :sunny:
my wife does this...when im licking her clit...she will move her hips up and make me tongue fuck her so she doesnt cum....then when the sensativity subsides im right back to the clit...