Boys! How hard do you have to think when eating pussy?

My bf claims to love eating pussy and backs it up by being very enthusiastic about it and awesome at it! My little problem is that he loses his erection when doing it, and sometimes will not get it back at all. He says it's because he is concentrating on me and has to 'think so hard'. He says it turns him on intellectually, but not necessarily physically. I'm very supportive and understanding about it, but this morning it really upset me (he didn't know how much). I suggested he doesn't go down on me till the very end. I also have a hunch it's something he feels confident doing and compensates with because sometimes he finishes too early or not at all.

When I blow him it totally turns me on, especially knowing I'm getting him off. I don't feel like I have to 'think' very hard, it just is a very natural thing....

Any thoughts, and how can I help?

 

If Im into eating pussy and its not a 69 positions, Ill probably relax and get soft..
Hes probably taking his mind off of things when going down on you,. its relaxing to him ..

 

sometimes going down on my gf turns me on and makes me rock hard and other times its like orison says, time to relax and get creative with my tongue and lips and zone out in the brain maybe if i'm tired or something . . . it usually turns me on a lot though because i know i'm warming this pussy up for my cock

 

Fantasizing performance is practice, when you are done practicing and decide to do it, well you know.

 

Thanks for replying, but I'm not sure what you mean?

 

Going down on a girl is such a turn on and I absolutely love it. But I too get soft after a little time. I have wondered why myself, since at the time I am so horny. Can always revive it within seconds of stopping though

Guess its just one of those weird natural things, but you should worry about it and he isn't lying!

 

I think sometimes it depends at what stage oral sex is employed.
Certainly at the begining of the action I don't see that this act of arousal won't include erctions, however after an / couple of interactions concentrating on 'the prize' can lead to other areas not required for action (excluding the 69 of course) lying somewhat dormant
- Keep on truckin' though - practice makes perfect

 

Some men will lose an erection if they aren't getting direct stimulation. If you make a big issue of it it will be a big issue. Not all men like having to plow away at a pussy all the time. I don't get much out of it, personally. Let him do what he likes, and stop making issues out of nothing, or you are looking for trouble.

 

I usually get hard when I start eating pussy, even if my gf is not touching my cock.. I guess it's because I know what will come next :2thumbsup:

 

I have no problem staying hard, just thinking about eating my wife pussy, makes me hard. Especially the next morning when I wake up, still have a hard on, although I did have a an erotic dream last night and I am sure that contributed to the hard on. and as of lately we have been having oral sex in a 69 position where she sucks me as well as fingers my hole, which leads to her finger fucking me hard and I eat her out and just play with the outside of her hole,either with my tongue or rimming it with my tongue.
I work in a warehouse and around mostly men. I get hard thinking about what she did to me the night before, I can say this does not happen all the time, thank God. luckily I wear bagging shorts , not wear the hang of me, they just give me a little more room in the crotch, so when I get a hard on, by the time I get to where I am in the same area of the other co workers, its either down by then or I just keep myself turned the other way till it goes down.

 

Her moans usually keep me rock hard while I'm eating her out. Maybe give him more feedback through moans or talking dirty? If he needs direct stimulation the whole time, maybe try 69.

 

Hunny I don't know what to say because my boyfriend gets very hard when eating me out.... And I see where u would get a little mad because I would too...

 

Try moaning and says Omg baby that's feel so good and let him just his hands on your boobs then he should get hard

 

I would tell him try not to think as much. Just relax and let your tongue do the work..

 

When my boyfriend is going down on me he loses his erection as well. I just don't take it personally and afterwards I just focus on him and he gets it back.

If he is unable to get hard again though it sounds like the two of you need to have an honest talk about how you both are feeling.

 

I'm usually seconds away from blowing my load when I'm eating pussy :tongue:

 

no matter what im doing down there...a tight wet pussy in my mouth is instant hard on...sometimes it sucks cause it hurts...penis wants up but its forced to be down cause im laying on my stomach....eating pussy takes precendance though...

 

I go soft when I go down on my wife. I get it back when I finish, with her help though!

 

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and anyways - do women stay wet when performing a bj??