what makes a relationship work?

when the hormonal period is finished what makes a relationship work?i just read the thread about the reality of love and i wonder why certain couples seem to have a good relationship after the traditional hormonal rush , some say it is lasting around 3 years..me i think to have each a rich personal life is one of the key..staying always together, doing everything together is for me a killer for a relationship..

 

Personally, I think doing things together helps the bond. I mean, I understand you want some you time, but being together alot isn't so bad.

 

No rules of conduct. Acceptance, encouragement, best wishes always.

 

having a religion that strictly forbids divorce.

 

"Let`s just be friends" works for me.

 

Any number of a few things.

Actually wanting a partnership, working together, compromising, understanding, strong chemistry, luck, co-dependence, loyalty, dedication, truly loving and nurturing one another, shared values, not wanting to find replacements, comfort, a strong bond.

 

Acceptance of reality and being able to let the other person be a person not an idea

 

Communication

 

Methinks it is that a relationship is built on trust from the foundations of honesty. Longevity requires an acceptance of lifestyles that are: He, She (or other combination) along with We; in order to allow both individuals and partners to develop into a blissful union

 

When you begin to appreciate their companionship and friendship

 

According to my ex-wife, I was to do all the work while she had a relationship......

 

the word friendship is coming often...

 

Communication. I just realized it now.

 

trust - allowing each other to do things separately of one and another.

 

That means you haven't found the right person yet. A little personal space is good, but you won't need a lot when you are with a highly compatible person.

 

Honesty-which gives you Trust - Comunication - Friendship/Companionship-Love

 

I believe some people are polyamorous and struggle trying to fit into this one lover society we have. I am totally a one girl kind of guy but who knows maybe you're not.

it seems good relationships the man wins 40% of the arguments and the woman wins 60%. This dynamic generates mutual respect and avoids bitterness. if any partner begins to dominate (whether by being domineering or just as destructive the other party being submissive) the relationship is doomed. i don't have many answers....

 

knowing when to keep my mouth shut

 

didn't i just read in another thread about you cheating on your girlfriend?

 

yes but it always makes me sad