So I gave my boyfriend head last night and he said he couldn't cum . So I asked him why. And he said because he maturated he night before. Is it true that if you materbate he night before u can't cum last night or is he just trying to make me feel better?
no it's not true. Maybe he wasn't in the mood that night & didn't want to hurt you're feelings. I wouldn't worry about it.
I have gotten several hundred blowjobs in my life and I have never had one orgasm from them sometimes it can feel AMAZINGLY GREAT and still not be the right kind of amazingly great to make you cum. Don't feel bad, keep at it.
Alright thanks mr writer but I just feel like if I can't make him cum then I'm not doing something right.... I tried again last night and couldn't... I feel like seriously just giving up.... It's frusterating
yeah, men only cum once in a lifetime. it's a shame he blew his on his hand the day before you started blowing him.
lmao. yeah that whole jacked off day before story doesn't really make sense especially for a teenager he could have jacked off an hour ago and still been able to cum if he can come from blowjobs. you're overthinking it too . . . the orgasm isn't the alpha and omega of the blowjob . . . the journey there is where it's at, so make it a good one and don't worry about whether or not he can finish, if he's not complaining then don't worry
There is an element of truth behind it. Because I can suffer from retarded ejaculation, due to a side effect of epilepsy medication, if I have a sex date with someone I always make sure of abstaining from masturbation for at least 24 hours beforehand so that I at least some chance of reaching a climax.
Concentrate on the tip of his penis with your mouth (to 1" or so behind the head maybe), using your tongue to put pressure on the underside of the head, moving your mouth up and down and moving your tongue around from side to side, sucking lightly to keep pressure all around. Take the rest of his shaft in your right hand, and maybe stroke up and down lightly or just keep pressure on it by holding it, whatever seems to make him feel best. Takes his balls in your left hand and lightly caress them, or if you have fingernails maybe scratch them lightly, very softly. There are other ways to give blow jobs of course, but if he doesn't cum in 5 or 10 minutes of this he just can't orgasm from a blow job for some reason. The average male would blow his load in 5 minutes. Saying you can't cum from having blown a load the night before is pure bullshit; he just didn't want to hurt your feelings, which actually is a good indicator.
Ok, so you wanted honesty... Teenage guys can come twice in an hour. An hour or two before could make it more difficult, but not the night before. I had a problem like this twice when I was a teenager (two diff girls). It was because the girl was doing things that weren't really that "stimulating". I was 16-ish, as were they. I think it was the first or second time either of them had tried it. When I was young, I tended to be pretty quick on the trigger, if you know what I mean. So yeah, it was them. Don't let this get you down. It's a skill like any other. Everyone is 'new' to everything in the beginning. So what was it? Both of them were "sucking", stationary. What gets us off is more "on-off" and 'friction', rather than 'Vaccuum'. Your vagina doesn't suck on us. Licking, no teeth, pressing your mouth and lips on and off. Not just sucking on it stationary, like it's a clogged straw full of milk-shake. Does that make sense? Each guy has stuff he likes that might be a little different, too. Use your mishap for conversation the next time. As you go start to go down on him, tell him something like "I'm new at this, and want to make sure this really works for you. What do you like?" As he tells you, do some of it . "Like this?" "How about this?" Pay attention to his dick like it deserves your attention in its own right. If he's like most guys, the talking and attention will get him even more fired up. Of course, say things/ways that meet your personality. Finally, he may just not like oral sex. Rare, but it happens. Think 1% rare. Or "Gay but I'm not admitting it yet" rare. If you ask, you'll know. I suspect he loves it. Guys have a hard time talking about emotions. They get fired up when they talk about sex. And lastly, no "angst". If you're really worried it won't be good, then that bleeds through. it won't be good, even if it could be. You'll be spooked too fast. Good luck.
