Ok... So does anybody know what a 'man day' is? A guy has been fighting to get me for three years now. He has finally succeeded. But the day that I play my best cards... Hell im even topless... He rejects sex because 'hes having a man day'. What does this mean? Did he just like the chase? Or does the man day really exist? Id love to understand this... as a rejection at the very start of a relationship really doesnt give you any high hopes. And does NOTHING for you self esteem lol.
You were topless and ready and instead he opted for men?I think it is pretty clear what "man day" means.
Perhaps... It just does not make sense. I know he is crazy about me...Hes organised me meeting his whole family! Wev only been seeing eachother for two days lol! But the reason I didnt date him for so long was because I never thought the connection was there... until very recently. For me.. sleeping with him is important... because im still unsure of whether I can cross the line from friendship to relationship. I have to give this a go... But I dont want to hurt him. If hes gaming me it really isnt a wise move... im willing to put my best effort into this... but as Im the one who spent so long dismissing him... youdv thought he should really focus on keeping me. Instead... hes at the pub as we speak. and has been since 2pm. giving me drunken phone calls. So far... Im not seeing this as a promising start. haha!!!
And I dont think he's gay... Haha but I really could be wrong. Most of my exes are now dating guys. Either... I have a masculine, or very dominating woman air about me that attracts the confused guys to me... OR im turning them. Hehe the dating scene really feels like more hassle than its worth at times
Im sure that I like him. I put a lot of thought into it. But right now... I feel like we are still just friends. Nothing has changed except we exchange a kiss here and there now. Until we do have that intimacy, I dont think either of us can tell if this is the right thing for us or not. Maybe thats why he rejected me? Maybe he too... is worried that the connection will not be there?
I wonder if he has been trying to get you for so long, that he has never really thought whether he wants to be with you. May I ask about his age? It's just that this reminds me of a situation I had when I was a teenager, I liked a guy for a very long time, but once we finally got together he totally lost his appeal to me. I guess I liked him only from a distance. (not my nicest moment, I know, but teenagers may not really know what it is they want...)
it doesn't take three years to ask 'do you fancy me - yes or no?' obviously the person in question is pretty meek.
1) Not attached to anyone else? Check 2) No erectile dysfunction? Check 3) A babe in bed beside me, only half clothed? Check 4) My reply to her? "I'm having a man day." Check Yep, I must be gay. It's the only explanation left. Actually, I'm not gay. The least I would've done is play with your very well proportioned tits for awhile.
Hes 21. Which is younger than I normally go for... Im 20 myself... but tbh I prefer to date people who are late 20's or early 30's, because (youd expect anyway) they have their heads more screwed on. I havent found that to be the case mind you lol! All I can say is... I dont think Im able to keep this relationship going. If you havent got the vibes flying at the start of the relationship.... then perhaps wer more like companions.
Should've asked him while he was drunk directly what the deal is, and why he's pussying out. If he's not gaming you, then damn, dude really freaked out after 3 hard years of work. Makes no fucking sense to me, but hopefully he should come around once he settles down. I personally would never stick around that long for a chic before intimacy :daisy: Or maybe something really is wrong with your tits. Care to post them?
If he wasn't seriously ill and he hadn't already fucked another chick half an hour earlier, he's gay. 21, finally with a girl he's supposedly been chasing for years and she has her tits out...and he declares "man day"?
Well.. he certainly isnt gay... He put up quite a fight when I told him it wasnt working, I thought it would be best to go back to friends sooner rather than later so we could hopefully keep the friendship going. he then got angry and accused me of me of cheating on him. (which I hadnt...) (also signs of distrust lol) So I asked him what a man day is. His response... he simply was not not in the mood that day. If hes not in the mood right at the start then that to me is a huge hint that it was simply not meant to be. hehe. So...Iv decided...with not alot of hard thinking lol... its time to bat for the other side!! Men are getting me nowhere... So girlies... here I come!
21 and having a man day? Either he was drunk and couldn't get a hard on or is feeling guilt about a relationship he is already in, or he really doesn't fancy women. Move on......... If he was having mental problems that day, maybe its for the better and what ever else happens it now up to him to make the next move.
