I'm friends with this guy that I'm into. I thought he was into me, and a few nights ago, I slept in his bed. He was really sweet to me. He was asking me if I was okay and he gradually put his arm around me and we cuddled. I wanted to sleep in his bed last night, but he was sick. He said that I could sleep in his bed tonight. But tonight in the elevator, I asked him what floor I should go to (mine or his) and he said 'I don't know.' So I just went to my room. The thing I'm confused about is, I texted him and asked him in person to just tell me if he doesn't want me to sleep in his bed. And he said that it's fine, that I can use his bed, and that he doesn't really care. And I asked him to speak honestly to me when I asked him in person. So why is he telling me that he doesn't care if I sleep in his bed, but act like he doesn't want me in his bed whenever I ask? (And he did just smoke weed before I asked him in the elevator what floor I was going on, so I don't know if the weed has any effect on it).
he's letting you take action because you're the one being forward about sleeping with him. if you want to sleep with him in his bed, do it. if not, don't. simple as that.
on the 3% chance you're not a troll, you could just talk to him instead of making 70 pretty much identical posts in 45 different threads and ignoring the replies.