He's giving me really mixed feelings

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Stevie19, Oct 29, 2011.

  1. Stevie19

    Stevie19 Member

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    I'm friends with this guy that I'm into. I thought he was into me, and a few nights ago, I slept in his bed. He was really sweet to me. He was asking me if I was okay and he gradually put his arm around me and we cuddled.
    I wanted to sleep in his bed last night, but he was sick. He said that I could sleep in his bed tonight. But tonight in the elevator, I asked him what floor I should go to (mine or his) and he said 'I don't know.' So I just went to my room.

    The thing I'm confused about is, I texted him and asked him in person to just tell me if he doesn't want me to sleep in his bed. And he said that it's fine, that I can use his bed, and that he doesn't really care. And I asked him to speak honestly to me when I asked him in person.
    So why is he telling me that he doesn't care if I sleep in his bed, but act like he doesn't want me in his bed whenever I ask? (And he did just smoke weed before I asked him in the elevator what floor I was going on, so I don't know if the weed has any effect on it).
     
  2. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    he's letting you take action because you're the one being forward about sleeping with him. if you want to sleep with him in his bed, do it. if not, don't. simple as that.
     
  3. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    take your undies off, he'll get the idea
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    on the 3% chance you're not a troll, you could just talk to him instead of making 70 pretty much identical posts in 45 different threads and ignoring the replies.
     
  5. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    lolzz i was thinking the same thing :banghead:
     
  6. deleted

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    its a 3some.. ;)
     
  7. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    Blanka25 Guest

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    It seems that he doesn't really care. Don't show that you like him.
     

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