My husband likes oral sex. I have tried and I don't like it. I mean don't like it at all. But when we have sex he always want me to do it orally on him which he knows I don't like and that turns me off. He also wants anal sex which initially I rejected but now sometimes I will allow him if it's not pain. But when it comes to sucking his dick, I really feel like I'm being forced to do it which I don't like. And he will turn to sleep with an "angry" mood. Does all guys love bj so much? Will u allow ur bf/husband to force u on something u don't like? Sometimes because of this I think if we r divorce he could get another better wife or gf to do bj for him if he want.
yes. but most guys won't force it, or act like spoiled little kids if they have to settle for a vagina instead.
Oral sex is definitely a norm in the sex lives of people in this day and age. However, I do have to ask, what is it exactly you dislike? Odor? Shower beforehand Taste? Shower beforehand & spit or have him cum on other body parts such as your boobs or stomach Grooming? Hand him some scissors & tell him to get to work son Fear of not knowing what to do? Well, I believe that's what this site is for! Advice. It's normal to fear not being good at doing something, but it truly does take practice. If it's something which cannot be changed then you'll need to explain to him that it's your personal preference and perhaps you guys will need to find other ways to make up for it although in my opinion there are no ways to make up for oral. Perhaps a handjob with lots of lube and techniques can replace oral sex. Yes, it is common for men to love to receive oral sex. In fact, it's more than expected by guys for a girl to just give oral sex, even without commitment. So at least he's your husband.
Does he pay the bills? Is he the head of the household? If he brings home the bacon you have no right to complain. Either put up with it or leave him so he can move on and find another woman more on the same page with him sexually.
He has no right to make you do, or make you feel like you need to do, something which you don't like. End of. If he can't accept it then he needs to get a grip. Tell him you like to have anal sex with guys using a strap on, and when he says no act the child too. I'm sure he'll soon realise he's out of order!
You should never feel forced to do anything you don't want. It is the same for him. You don't like bj's, and he shouldn't feel forced to do things he doesnt like, like go to work, talk to you, pay the bills, be nice to your mother, come home on the weekends, stuff like that. Everyone has the right to do what they want. What their partner needs doesn't come into it. They just need to get over themselves.
i think if your with your man and he likes something but u dont why not do it for him its kinda shitty for u not to do it. if u do do it imagine how happy u will make him and hell love u more for it
