I'm into my guy friend and slept in his bed a few nights ago. We cuddled. I asked him last night if I could sleep in his bed and he said, 'tomorrow night.' So tonight I was in his bed and he was somewhere else. Then he texted me, 'can we hold off until tomorrow night?' Then I texted him back, 'If you really don't want me in your bed, just tell me.' And he responded, 'your fine lol, I'm just feeling sick tonight.' Do you think he's just faking everything because he doesn't want me in his bed?
maybe. sounds a lil phoney especially cuz where was he when he was sick? wouldnt being at home be better usually? doesnt make too much sense. but at the same time, you really can hold off for one night like he suggested. its only one night, at least so far. and you shouldnt harp at him at all, give him some space so he's comfortable in choosing what he wants. at this point, i wouldnt remind him anymore, and just hope he invites you in the bed with him. are you guys closeted?
Beware the Text! - for you do not know who sent it ! Speak to him, ask of the question and then know for sure the answer meThinks
Mmm sounds odd...but give it a couple more tries - it may have been a coincidence! But any more and you need to have a conversation about it and get the truth from him direct
There's sure as hell something not right there! You need to give more details about your relationship.
