When a guy friend does this?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Stevie19, Oct 27, 2011.

  1. Stevie19

    Stevie19 Member

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    I'm friends with this guy. I'm into him. But I don't know if he feels the same way about me.
    He'll tease me then say that the fastest way to a girls heart is to tease her. He invited me in his room and said it was okay if I slept in his bed. He gradually made a move to put his arm around me and cuddle with me. Then he got my number from another friend of ours.
    But ever since I slept in his bed, things have been different. It's like were both avoiding each other. And I'm confused because I really thought that he was into me.
    What do you think?
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i don't know, why are you avoiding him?

    he probably thinks you're pissed at him for crossing a line if you've been acting weird since then.
     
  3. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    You were friends with a dude, slept with him and hadn't yet given him your number? =p
     
  4. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    since he went for a cuddle and not a lay - i'd say he genuinely likes you

    the only reason for avoidance - in my eyes

    is if he felt he somehow overstepped a boundary

    or maybe felt that you were not interested.

    so you need to ask yourself

    are you being maybe a little to constrained with your own feelings?
     
  5. OneOfTheDifference

    OneOfTheDifference Member

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    Stevie19 - go read my long answer at your previous post that is titled, "Am I Doing Something Wrong?" I've given you some good input there, but I don't want to write it all again here. I just posted it just now. Go.

    Regards, One Of The Difference
     
  6. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Be straight, relate your feelings, look into the eyes, the windows of the soul, be honest be open and then go with your gut feeling for a way forward from there
    :)
     
  7. GiddyLaughter

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    I'd say yes he's into you.

    Throw the cards on the table quick before things get more awkward then they would otherwise be.
     

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