well i think i will be forever single which im fine with as i get on with myself very well lol does anyone else feel like this? or just me?
yes, i feel you. i just got out of a short relationship which instead of making me upset it made me feel inspired and motivated to know myself better. That's why there's that quote: "love yourself first before you can love others." i think it should be equal, love others as much as you love yourself.
I also get the feeling i will always be single which is ok as i only have my self to answer too lol,but i like to think my soul mate is out there somewhere and 1 day we will meet.Do you guys believe in soul mates ?
well i'm not gay but no i don't think i'll be single forever i'm just too irresistible the past has shown me and i just love a good regular shag and everything else that entails a relationship... except for the craziness which always surfaces
thanks for your replys xx to answer your question GTee i do believe in soul mate of different kinds and my best friend past away early this year and i think that we should of been together for a long time the was nothing sexual between us but we were soul mates on a whole different level and now she has gone i think that was my happy time which i'm fine with!! also like you i do think there is a soul mate for everyone and fate will brig them together when the time is right xxxx
sorry to hear about your friend frai,and as for my soul i hope the time is right soon im getting no younger lol
Yeah I'm sure I'll be single forever for a few valid reasons. I've lived as a single adult way too long to gracefully adapt to having another adult in my life. For almost 40 years I have been a father, a care Giver, raising my sons whose ages spread from 50 to 18 and hitting lots of places in between. Sharing responsibility is foreign to me. Having an Equal in my life would take a lot of adjustment. Pehaps most difficult would be allowing someone to care for me. I very recently damaged a realtionship I have valued for years because he wanted to take care of me. I simply didnot handle it gracefully or graciously. It feels very uncomfortable having someone fuss after needs. The closest dream I might entertain would be the mentoring of a younger man while he was trying to educate or establish himself in life. Different from parenting because with an unrelated man there might be a chance for intimacy. Physical closeness would be such a great luxery.
intimacy doesn't come easy for me either. and living with someone else on a daily basis is actually not as simple as it is made out to be. with that being said i don't think i'll be forever single. i wouldn't mind it, i love being alone. and if that is how it will be, i'll still be at peace with my life. i tend to connect with some guys though, and i do see myself settling down with someone. it's actually a pretty recent thing for me to think like this. since my teens till mid-twenties i didn't want to hear a word about long-term commitment to another person. now i can see it happening. but i'll never get into a relationship just for the relationship's sake. only if i find the guy i truly want there in my life every day, then.
Give yourself away. You don't realize the love you have unless you spend it. Don't mean have sex with everyone, but the love you withhold is your own. All expressions of love are maximal.
