Looking for advice on how to ask the wife for a snowball. The thought of doing this turns me on very much but I am not sure how to approach it with my wife. We have been married for about 10 years and our sex life is good. She does give me BJ's regularly and swallows sometimes if I cum in her mouth. Ive kind of hinted that I wanted to taste my cum afterward but she never has acknowledged that. I've tasted my cum after masturbating and also gone down on her after cumming in her. Just not sure how to ask for it, I don't want her to think I'm gay or anything but I'd like very much to experience this as I think it would be very hot
You've been married for 10 years??? I think it's about time to be completely honest with her and be comfortable enough to know that she won't judge you lol
LOL, WTF? your 39!? Besides, I thought Marriage was supposed to be all about trust and honesty and communication?
Easy guys, sometimes the sexual trust and honesty is hard to come by, even in very solid relationships. Fezz, Can you talk about sex with your wife openly? Sometimes it is hard to do. Try having a conversation where you establish that anything between a man and a woman is OK and you do not want to have inhabitions and there is no judgment. All people fantasize, and the same fantasies seem to to be everywhere, it is a matter of breaking down inhabitions and trust. If your wife is open with you and feels like she is not going to be judged, you are going to find that she probably likes swapping. It turns out that women enjoy wet kissing after BJ's just as much as men enjoy it after going down on women. Your wife is not a lesbian if she kisses you after you go down on her and you certainly do not judge her. Just the same, you are not gay if you snowball with her. Its actually pretty exciting. Try an open conversation, it only gets much better when the barriers are down. Remember when movies had mud wrestling and cat fights years ago? Most did not want to see women fight, they wanted to see them touch each other, but socially, it was "gay."
It is not that easy. What if she tells him that it is gross or otherwise says something that makes him feel bad or ashamed. It may take a long time to get over. Definately not the result that he wants. That trust can be hard to build up and very easy to break down. Ultimately, though, and this seems to be confirmed by posts on this forum, women generally are really turned on by a lot of things that are considered taboo, and this is definatelty one of them, so his wife should go for it if she is true to her real feelings and not what society's stigma tells her.
Yes I would agree with this also, a few times I have gone down on my wife after I came in her,and we really didn't talk about it after but she knew I had a load in there and I think she found it hot because she had a big O when I did this. Recently when going down on her I brought her to 3 orgasms which I know has never happened in our relationship and don't think ever for her and she was crazy happy afterwards and the next day.
Just talk to her about it and tell her what you want to do. I had never thought about doing that before; but one night after a blowjob, my wife suddently kissed me and and basically spit my load of cum into my mouth without warning. It really was hot, and then she asked me to give her a good mouthful of her "love juices" after oral (she is a squirter). We both enjoy this practice and now do it on a regualar basis.
well, we are also extremely sensitive after an orgasm, so it's easier to trigger another. I had the same experience when my primary partner did this, and I can't recall thinking about the fact that he'd just come. It was the first time either of us had had sex without a condom in YEARS, so for him, it could have been that he could go down on me after vaginal sex without the goops and latex lube tastes. yay IUDs.
Besides my suggestion to just ask her, try this. When I asked my wife the first time, she got grossed out and made all sorts of stupid accusations. She used to run and spit it out all of the time. One night I held her and wouldn't let her run. Instead, she kissed me and pushed the cum into my mouth, saying she had to get rid of it somewhere and since I wanted it, I got it. Is your wife the same?
Well there is a website that created a how to on getting your wife to snowball kiss with you. There are five steps. 1. Kiss her immediately after a blowjob. 2. Eat her Pussy before during and After Sex. 3. Turn her onto playing games of power in the bedroom. With you in control, make love then make her taste your cock. Hope she reciprocates 4. Repeat steps 1, 2 and 3 with dirty talk. 5. Simply ask for it. Here is the link. http://cumeatinghusband.com/kiss-after-a-blow-job/
