Considering Trying Something Nude

I'm in college and a couple of my friends live in a house off campus. One of them is very into being uninhibited and he and the other three people who live in this house have nude "parties" where they and about 10-20 people just hang out, watch TV, have some drinks, play cards, etc while naked. I've been invited a couple times and I've declined because I'm hung up worrying I'll have an erection in front of them. There will be women there and although I understand that erections are normal I can't face having 15 - 20 people see me having one.

Does anyone have any advice for me? I asked my friend who's been inviting me. His advice has been to cover myself up with the towel if I get hard and am embarrassed about it, but that, in general, hard-ons aren't a big deal as long as you're not touching yourself. He also recommended not drinking until I'm more comfortable because being tipsy makes you more likely to get randomly hard. Is that true?

 

Loosen up and tag along; get your gear off and hang out. Regarding a boner, you're in the company of other guys and is most unlikely to cause offence. I'll bet you any one of them, if not all, get a boner now and then. And the girls? If they're naked too they'll probably be there expecting to see a boner — no doubt they'll be eyeing off the collection of bodies. You've got to start getting nude somewhere and some place and a party with like-minded friends — people you obviously know, sounds ideal to me. The door is open, go on in and enjoy it.

 

The "vibe" I get with these people is that they like to be uninhibited by popular opinion, but they're pretty sane and logical about stuff. I'm basically "ready" to give it a shot; I'm just a bit hung up on this detail.

The other thing I sorta forgot about them is that they're not always nude (actually I think most of them only do it at these gatherings), so it's not like I'm the new guy and everyone else hasn't seen a pair of pants for a year.

 

Uninhibited sounds like they're right into the groove. You'll fit in.
And...Oh my goodness, you really do need to shift to the next quantum: go nude with no pants for a year — no more hang-ups with detail, detail, detail. No more decisions. And yes: livin' la vida nudie solves one big conundrum that faces each and every one of us each morning: "What shall I wear today...?" :2thumbsup: