slept with a guy

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by polka-dots, Oct 24, 2011.

  1. polka-dots

    polka-dots Member

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    that I met online... after 4 dates. I haven't seen him since (a week ago). Is he just busy or uninterested now?
     
  2. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    He probably got what he wanted.
     
  3. Well Arranged Dust

    Well Arranged Dust Member

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    To be honest that really doesn't sound very good.
     
  4. Thekarthika

    Thekarthika Member

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    Have you been talking? Are you trying to make plans? What does he say?
     
  5. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    Oh wow, you said you haven't seen him since, did you try contacting him asking him what's up. If you did already and he doesn't answer in a week maybe he's avoiding you and got what he wanted. Sorry this happen to you.
     
  6. deleted

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    stalker..
     
  7. polka-dots

    polka-dots Member

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    i text him but he seems to be busy with work which I do believe... but before he would always be eager to see me.
     
  8. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    Does he answer the text?
     
  9. polka-dots

    polka-dots Member

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    Yes he's been answering but I haven't texted him these past 2 days because I'm waiting for him to text first.
     
  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I've been very busy at work

















    :)
     
  11. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    If he answered your text's, and ya'll both have normal conversations like before, then maybe you are over re acting , and maybe he is busy
     
  12. polka-dots

    polka-dots Member

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    I hope I am.
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    wanna go on 4 dates with me?
     
  14. Thekarthika

    Thekarthika Member

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    lawl
     
  15. polka-dots

    polka-dots Member

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    Hmm... how about 5 dates?

    Serious question: how long should I wait to text him? It's been almost 3 days since I haven't. :(
     
  16. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    how was the last date you had with him? Did he seem interested ...

    if everything was fine , then maybe you should text him, but say something like "hi, how you been? We haven't spoke in a while... etc
     
  17. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    Don't text him at all until he texts you.

    Seriously, if he's interested, that will be how you know
     
  18. polka-dots

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    The last time was not really a date... he invited me over. I think he was just interested in doing that rather than spending time with me.

    I was thinking of just waiting for him to text me but I think he got a new phone.
     
  19. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Just forget it and move on.
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i just talked to him. he's not sure if you're really interested in him because he hasn't heard from you in 3 days so i gave him this advice:

    "Don't text her at all until she texts you.

    Seriously, if she's interested, that will be how you know"
     

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