sew, cuz I'm 5'7" I'm a bottom >_>

I don't get it... I'm most certainly a top yet I've fucked zilch in the past 2.5 weeks... My bf is a bottom (only topped once before me...) yet I have been fucked 3 times in the same period... >_<

Every time I am at a gay bar people want me to bottom for them too, saying shit like, "I would lick your ass and fuck the shit out of you". Though, I don't act like a bottom in even the slightest. I'm attributing it to my height...

Or, maybe I just look it? Idk, you tell me what the problem is...

 

A lot of gay men say this to me too. When it boils down to it. They aren't really built for the action they speak of..

 

That's gay bars for you. At any rate at 5'7", if you are proportionate, you should have a bottom.

 

no one ever says that to me

 

Who knows...are they taller than you? Maybe they got a fantasy thing going about doing a boy and they equate 5'7" with the height of a boy. Maybe they're androids from hell sent to fuck with your brain. And it's also possible that they think you're cute and really would like to lick yer ass like a lollipop then fuck you till you're cross eyed with delight. All thing considered people could certainly say worse things to you.

 

I'm not gay, I may be bi and have no actual experience in such matters, but I'd guess it's because of your look.

You have the soft, happy, boyband look; I could see people thinking of you as a bottom/submissive because of that.

However, your demeanor is a major part of your overall look; and I of course, can't see that.

 

is this personals ad?..

 

At least you get approach at a bar

 

I just want to say one thing, everyone gets approached at a gay bar.

No... This isn't a personals ad. I just put the pics cuz obviously there is some type of look I am giving off to get the reactions. Apparently the "boyband" look

So far, I believe its the androids just fucking with me >_>

 

I dont know anything about gay bars but your picture does give me the impression that you feel most at home with a man's penis in your rectum just the innocent-yet-devilish look you give off.

 

Have to admit I wouldn't complain about someone wanting to lick my ass and fuck me. But I'm usually a top, don't mind swapping roles though. Anyways by your pic I wouldn't assume you bottom right away.

 

Damnit, I didn't think any of the psych section came into here -_____-

Maybe I should grow meh beard back?! I seriously just think I am going to become a bottom... Or start fucking dogs... jk

But seriously... Hahaha

Man, I had 1 hour of sleep last night cuz I was at a gay bar then I came home to my bf who fuckin elbowed me in the stomach when I tried to cuddle with him, then I got pissed and did something I never do (only cuz he did it to me, and found nothing); I read his txt messages. Come to find out he is cheating on me and telling his friends we are not together... Thought it would be important for me to know that we are not together, but I guess that subjective.

 

i think its cuz the boyish aspect. only a bottom would dye their hair that color
if you wanna seem more like a top, get some muscles and get your hair back dark.

geez what a superficial post for the hipforums haha

 

I know the thread seems like that, it was just bothering me though and I decided to post it... Thats what the forums are for right? Plus, now I am getting a better idea of why people think what they do.

Btw, I do have muscle. I'm just leaned over in a weird way and my shoulders seem weird. I weigh 185lbs at 5'7" sew... (omg, just might be a personals ad! )

Edit: ooo, oo, I also have fat, which I like >: ) BTW This hair color isn't bottom, its called being fashionable yo >____<

 

Lol

Ditto.


Keep the moe and beard thats always hot but tidy them up a bit, and loose what ever that is on top of your head, it is a little too N'Sync.

Which still leaves the eyes, they are a bit too teady bearish, and to compensate you'd have to drop weight and bulk up so your face thins out. No you dont really have muscle, you can tell by your face, without seeing the rest of you.

You want people to automatically assume you are a 'top' you have to give off that scary just got out of prison vibe.

Although there are some that say true tops are born, they cant be made

 

Tidy it up? How so...? I feel like I keep it a lot cleaner than a lot of people, but maybe I am vain...

And, I am not going to lose weight. I hate twinks and skinny tall gay guys. They are repulsive to me. Weird how a lot of gay guys are like 6'1" skinny smooth people. :ack2:

btw, I don't think you can tell how much muscle someone has by their face. I also don't think that I need to give off a "prison vibe" to be a top <_< You're not trolling are you vanil?!?!

 

I think he means keep it the beard trimmed.

I always think of a top being a man's man, and the bleach blonde/dark hair mix gives off an effeminate, fussy-with-the-hair vibe. If you want to top, be the aggressor. If you're confident in your sexual role, people will feel that.

 

Chime.. Hes to short for someone like me, even if I took my heels off..
But without going there, generally he wouldnt be attracted to someone like myself knowing my secrets. Most Gay men are not attracted to cdbi's. Id be to demanding of him. My gender roles would confuse him even if he was a top. As I said "Im demanding", he would have to be a really good fucker. His shortness makes me think he'd rather be the fuckee, and not the fucker..
Kissing is out because he has facial hair, in fact I dont like kissing guys unless your GF's mouth is accompanying mine. but that facial hair is like kissing a pussy that kisses back with teeth..

but you do have the cuddly type thing going for you and thats a plus.. now what you packing?

 

I'd loan you my flats, but I wear a 6.5 shoe.

Really? Short hair makes you think bottom?

 

shortness of body frame.. lol.

If I was barefoot at 5'9''. I may look very dainty next to the mouse cause Im skinny .. but hes pudgy, so I would be thinking to climb on him like mountain. Not that hes much shorter. So Im also thinking hed rather be topped if thats what the whole post is about. But hes not an uncomfortable weight at all. As others said he has that cute devil thing going.. Im not sure mice and squirrels can have a healthy relationship together. In the winter should squirrel run out of nuts, it will hunt mouse like a cat.. :love: