Hi My name is James, Im 20 years old and have been with my partner for over 3 years. My problem is this. I was a virgin when i got with my girlfriend. We had sex for the first time. And it took me 3 hours (Rougly) to reach..."the end" And for the past 3 years we have been sexualy active. But each time i take at least 1-2 hours Ive looked it up in other places, Some say nerves, But im never nervous ! Anyone suggest anything? I dont masterbate never need to. Shes very pleasing. I just take ages and i think it upsets her alittle. Thanks for any help. Regards
Dude, Are you complaining? I was brought up to believe that a real man could fuck all night. I'm not what I used to be but I was at one to two hours at your age. At one point I could cum 6 or 7 times in a night. The last time I tried that I was in pain the next day. (Full disclosure: It's my 36th birthday. I'm drunk and stoned and feel like my life is half over.) I miss those days. Stay Brown, Rev J
Oh Im not complaining. I love it lol! But she is....Im all about the pleasing And I dont use condoms. We are safe that way. She is on the pill. We get tested once every 2 weeks or so. I have a negative effect to condoms. Make me itchy and stuff. I dno why.
Are you guys not exclusive? I don't understand why you test so much (not saying to stop though..) You probably have a latex allergy, or an allergy to certain lubricants, they make non-latex ones, and non-lubricated ones; just in case you have future endeavors with women not on the pill. Is this only during sex, or do other types of arousal take you just as long? Have you tried fantasizing about things to make yourself cum quicker?
I do hope we are exclusive but I like to be sure. I didnt know they made different types of condoms i will look into that. Thanks! All arousal takes just aslong. The only time i came quick was when she dressed up as an pilot lol! But even that took 20 minutes or so. And i dont count how long i take, Im just a very good time keeper ;P Thanks for the help so far,
You've been going out 3 years and you 'hope' you are exclusive?! Sorry but I had to laugh at that. ** Sent from my phone using Tapatalk :]
Yeah, I'm still thinking fantasizing could help you. Also, making things more interesting in the bedroom could help. Costumes, role-playing, domination, even new positions. Couple more questions: Do you look at porn? How regularly? Is she good in bed? Does she very active during lovemaking, or more passive?
Believe me...the older she gets the longer she'll want you to go! lol At least she's not complaining about you being a 1 minute man! I dated a girl once that after a few weeks she said and I quote: "I didn't realize when I hooked up with you, it'd be a marathon!" So after that, I tried to reach climax within a more reasonable time...but it usually required more than just fucking the hell out of her...
Take it slow and enjoy !! It is an important aspect of love-making to prolong the experience, so whilst you can - embrace the euphoria as much and as long you can Your partner will, I'm sure appreciate it
Wish this was possible. I go at it like an animal. Only to stop to wipe sweat off...lol Last night we tried it like pornstars. (re-acted a porn) Didnt work. Porno was 2 hours long. Was at least 30minutes longer. Whats going on! lol! Maybe over time ill go quicker. I cant do this when im 50 lol ill have an heart attack :l
