I'm becoming bi. . .

I've been in a three way relationship with my girlfriend and my roommate. I've explained this before http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=428270&f=65

Things have been working out well between us. We all live together and my (our) girlfriend spends time between our rooms or we have threesome sex. Things have been kept pretty well balanced and we're all friends outside of the bedroom as well.

Things progressed from me dating my girlfriend, to inviting my friend to have a threesome, to having an essentially three-way relationship.

As of recently I've been having feelings for my friend as well. I legitimately still feel like a straight man attracted to women however I'd be really excited to try some stuff with him. We've jerked off together a couple times before, it was hot, but have not done anything like that for a while.

We talk about doing something a little more "bi," but someone (usually me) chickens out in bed when we're having the threesome. I'm just getting confused about what I want and can't decide if we should try something or not.

 

Just bend over and let him stick his dick in you ! It feels amazing. :2thumbsup:

 

Sounds like you just need a little assistance overcoming nerves for that first time...
Do a couple of shots. Drink some wine. Smoke some herb. Whatever works for you, and then just relax and see what comes naturally.

 

Well maybe get into it slowly. Do a jerk off session again, and while he is jerking off just lean over and start sucking his dick. Trust me you will both enjoy the experience, and I gaurantee when you finish him he will finish you. I started off just sucking now I have graduated to more, I have a steady friend that I get with about 1-2 times a week, works out good cause his wife and my girlfriend get a long great and love watching and joining in. I will tell you that your girl will go wild over it. I told my ex girlfiend that for her birthday me and a friend would have a three way with her as she loves to be doubled up on, well when she was blowing my friend I started joining in and the look on her face was priceless, she loved it.

 

We did our first "bi" thing last night. We were going to have a threesome and my girlfriend suggested I rub dicks with my roommate. He and I did and our girlfriend rubbed us together. It took a while, but we both came.

After we came it was just really awkward between us. Both my roommate and I got dressed fairly fast and sorta avoided each-other for the rest of the night. Our girlfriend ended up not even having an orgasm at all! Although, she claims it was really hot anyways. I talked to my roommate this morning a little bit and he just sorta avoiding thinking about it.

I'm very okay with what happened. I think a good time was had by all, but my roommate is a little hurt. About an hour ago he asked our girlfriend if he could screw her alone in his room. That's totally fine; but I feel like this time was to somehow prove to himself that he's a man or something.

What do I do? I guess what's confusing to me is that it appeared to me that he was the "driving force" behind having more contact between us; but he's sorta freaking now that I responded to that.

 

Any thoughts guys?

 

:devil:I love hearing everyone's stories about hooking up with another married buddy for some mutual cock play...how did your activity progress? How do you keep it discrete?

 

ChevyDudeNYC, I think you misunderstand. Read the previous posts!

 

Hey, how'd it go? Hopefully he got over it by now, right

 

We have not really talked about it since then and things are not awkward anymore. I think I might leave it alone for a while longer.

I think what is going on is that we're all interested in adding some bisexual eroticism to our relationship, both in the form of threesomes with a stronger bisexual element like what we did and possibly some "gay sex" later on. We both have sex with our girlfriend both in private and together and I think we're all open to this possibly extending to us guy having sex with each-other occasionally.

The problems seem to be that actually doing it is a lot different than talking about doing it or fantasizing about doing it. To be totally honest I think that while we're both legitimately interested in having female relationships as well as male relationships, but the female relationships are far more "legit" and less taboo. He's shown interest in me, has taken me on some "dates", and has invited me in to masturbate with him, but seems scared to take the next steps.

 

It happened!!! Last night I was sitting on the sofa watching TV with my roommate and he asked if I wanted to jerk it with him. We unzipped and I asked him if he'd let me try sucking his dick. He said it was okay and I went down on my first man ever!!! It was super hot, and kinda gross. Couldn't actually get him to orgasm just from the sucking, but still I did it! We jerked our own to finish but he seemed a little more interested in watching me shoot. He was a little awkward about it afterwards, as was I, but I think we're going somewhere with it.

 

congrats, I'm sure it'll only get better from here.

if you wish to show affection, remember that you don't have to do it in a lovey-dovey fashion.
just be comfortable with everything and i'm sure the awkwardness will go away.

 

awesome!!! as i read this i was thinking "they should just 69"...its a great way to be super intimate with someone but not look them in the eye...sadly, i find that helps in the beginning

you also get to both explore what you are into...top or bottom...i advocate for bottom cuz its awesome..riding your roommate while kissing your girlfriend who is sitting on his face...c'mon

 

Lovetocowgirl, by "top and bottom" I figure you're referring to anal sex, and I'm feeling like we're a long way away from that. We're all going to be home tonight and I'm hoping we can get a three-way going. My gf knows about what we did and find it hot. Any ideas for hot threeway sex that's a little more bi? We're sorta think about maybe some sort of oral chain or something. Really not looking forward to taking an oral load though, is it bad?

 

I used to be shy of anal but once I discovered douching and felt another cock inside me rubbing my prostate - there was no going back.

Wonderful feeling and sensation, take your time and enjoy,

Simon :sunny:

 

Haha you again... I just love that from you

 

Things are going well still. We've been doing a lot of DPing with our girlfriend and my roommate and we have only done sucking on each other still. Our girlfriend loves doing anal and she really wants to watch us exchange fucks. Probably going to give it a shot this weekend.

I've got to admit I'm super excited; even to receive. I'm actually hoping we're able to do it tonight. What's also kinda hot is that she really wants to finger us and watch while we get it. I can't believe this is about to happen. . . I feel like they'll never get home!

 

I recommend having him fuck you while you're fucking your girlfriend. There's really nothing quite like being in the middle of a mmf threesome fuck. Pardon my French.

 

We sorta took a break from this for a while and went back to more "traditional" sex with our girlfriend. Last night we decided to try the mmf threesome with me receiving from my roommate while fucking my girlfriend.

It was an amazing sensation although the initial penetration hurt like a bitch. I cummed VERY quickly, but my roommate wasn't able to cum until he could thrust from on top.

 

I would think that in the passion of the moment that you would be able and willing to just lean over and sick his cock in your mouth. I know personally that when I'm masturbating that's when I get the desire and start to fantasize about sucking another man's cock.