I've met a man...

I’m 28 years old, married. Last Friday we went out with one friend of mine (girl) to another city (2 hrs by car away). There we met two men. I liked one of them SO much, we were talking the whole evening in the restaurant and then in pub later on. I felt like he’s my soul mate, we have so much in common. He asked me whether I’m married and I said ‘yes’. He was a bit disappointed I guess, but I’m not sure. He said that he is 36, single and no GF at the moment. We exchanged our FB names. Next day I’ve found him in FB and send him a simple msg like “hi, how r u?”. He answered one day later, that he had great time going out with me and maybe next time we can do it in my city. I wrote him back in few hrs (yesterday), but still no answer from him. Is he not interested? Or he doesn’t want anything with married woman? Or is this a kind of game – to delay the answer? Thank's in advance for the opinions!!
P.S. plz, don’t say that I’m married and shouldn’t behave like this, etc. etc. My marriage is another topic. Not here plz.

 

he will play along until you fuck him and then he will move on to a non cheater

 

some people don't sit around on facebook all day waiting for a message to reply to.

maybe he found someone who's available.

 

Yeah maybe he works a lot or has a healthy, full life and doesn't check his fb every few hours.

 

But it is relevant to this issue.
He may be reluctant to cuckold another man.
He may not want to step into the emotional mess surrounding a wife unhappy with her marriage. (I don't know if that describes you. Does he know if that describes you?)

If you've told him that you think he might be your "soul mate", he might not be as impressed by that as you are.

BTW, does he know if you have any kids?

 

Your marriage is another topic? Not when it comes to asking whether another man is interesting in you.

He may not want anything to do with a married woman.. rightly so in my opinion. Or he may just be busy - there are people who do not spend their entire lives on facebook believe it or not.

 

I look at my FB maybe once a week, sometimes it is longer than that. I would bet that he is married. Be cautious with what you do. Is what you are doing worth losing what you have? Good Luck.

 

Yea, the only way your marriage would play into this is if you promised your husband you would be faithful to him only for the rest of your life when you got married. So probably not.

 

Enjoy the excitement and euphoria of the moment - for memories of physical exhilaration are all that will last in a sudden liaison
meThinks

 

I wouldn't say that I'm unhappy.. but as I said, it's another story. In any way, I'm very easy going, merry and optimistic person. I'm not in depression or whatsoever, so there is no "emotional mess" (sorry if I understand wrong what do u mean).
We didn't talk abt my marriage, he just asked whether I'm married, and he was really confused to hear "yes" from me..
I don't have kids and I said it to him (he asked).

 

I got the msg from him. He'd like to go out together this weekend. I don't know if it will work out, actually, we will see.

Many thanks to everyone for the opinions!!!

 

omg so exciting!!!!!!!!

 

what a shock..a married woman not sure if she can get away from her husband this week-end for long enough to have sex with another dude

 

bwhahaha....this was sarcasm right? haha

 

If you go out a second time with him, this is now basically called cheating....He's your soulmate after one night? Classic

 

what do you want? Do you just wanna meet up and fuck or are you thinkng of leaving your husband?

 

who would have guessed he might be surprised to hear the woman hitting on him was married...

 

of course

 

We were just talking abt very "neutral" subjects. Nothing more. and the same on FB. I don't consider it as cheating. You think it is??

 

I'm sure I don't want to leave my husband. I just want to meet this man, cos as I said we have so much in common! the same countries to travel, the same hobbies, the same interests, learning the same languages etc etc, really many things. I didn't think particulatly abt to have sex with him.