I'm afraid I give bad blowjobs.

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by LillyR, Oct 12, 2011.

  1. LillyR

    LillyR Guest

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    I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but I don't think I'm very good.
     
  2. machinist

    machinist Banned Lifetime Supporter

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stEXPIh9Qi0"]I Don't Understand Job by Garfunkel and Oates - YouTube
     
  3. dschac

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    It's depends how ur bf want it to be I guess. Some like to be dominant n prefer fck mouth.. some like to watch the girl do it.... just do whatever u lik with it....hmmmm
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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  5. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    hey how about maybe asking your boyfriend what he likes
     
  6. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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  7. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Relax, go with the flow and practice ;) makes perfect
    :)
     
  8. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    Ok first thing no teeth.

    After that relax and think of licking and ice cream cone, or make like sucking a lollipop and practice
     
  9. tricknologist

    tricknologist menace to sobriety

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    If he blows his load you're doing it right, it's pretty hard to mess up.
     
  10. MissCyanide

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    have you asked your partner whether or not HE thinks you're good?

    communication would probably benefit for you in this situation. You need to find out what he likes and also next time you do it, see what part of it you feel uncomfortable with (i.e. do you grind your teeth against him sometimes? do you move it in and out of your mouth awkwardly? is your mouth not correctly positioned? do you often choke if he goes too deep?)

    If you feel uncomfortable with the way you're performing oral sex on him then next time you go to do it just try simple tactics like teasing him with your tongue or going steadier so you can control your movement.

    Let him be the guide aswell and let him know you feel uncomfortable with the way you're doing it. I'm sure he'll understand and if he doesn't, tell him it's in your best interest to do a good job so that in the end he's left feeling 100% satisfied.

    The key to this is communication and also a fair amount of practice with what he likes.

    :)
     
  11. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Even the worst BJ is a good BJ.
     
  12. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    This is just not true. It's completely possible to be bored and uncomfortable during a bad blowjob.

    There is no cookie cutter way of giving a good blowjob, it's all about what he likes. So the best advice I can give you is that the best thing you can do is just to ask him, tell him to tell you exactly what he likes, and listen, and please. :daisy:

    A good blowjob is damn near a religious experience.
     
  13. LillyR

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    I have asked him.
    He wants it hard and rough. He doesn't mind a little bit of teeth. I swear if I do it any harder ......

    It still doesn't seem to be that great for him.
     
  14. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i was nearly circumcised by a girl once.
     
  15. rollingalong

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    just pretend its a popsicle that is melting and you must not let a drop hit the ground....try to insert some sound effects...some slurping..some ''mmmmm''s
     
  16. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    Sounds like you're not doing it rough enough for him :) Try taking it to the next level, really let loose on him.
     
  17. LillyR

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  18. LillyR

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    I've sucked as hard as I physically can. I've used a very firm hand grasp while using my mouth and tongue. I've even chomped down with my teeth (covered by my lips) and gone to work that way.

    I'm beginning to think (for other reasons as well) that he has sensitivity issues.
     
  19. straightandnaked

    straightandnaked Banned

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    ya communication is key. he will tell you what feels good.
     
  20. Stephie

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    Ask him how often he masturbates. If a guy masturbates too much he often gets desensitized making it hard to make him cum.
     
  21. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    It's not so much desensitization as that most men don't change grip or technique. Their bodies learn to only respond to a certain type of stimulation. Asking is always a good idea.

    Stay Brown,
    Rev J
     

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