Did he not notice me because he was high?

I went out a few nights ago with friends. I looked amazing. My outfit was amazing, my hair was amazing and my makeup was amazing.
And I saw the guy that I'm attracted to and he didn't even acknowlwdge me.
He was really high though. His eyes were barely open and he seemed really calm. He was talking to people, but they were the ones who started talking to him first.

Was the reason why he didn't notice me was because I guess I didn't look as good as I thought that night and he has no interest in me whatsoever, or was it because he was high?

 

It seems like he was high enough to not be thinking of starting any conversation, it happens. If he was only talking when people talked to him then he was probably just so chill that he had no desire to strike up a conversation. If he's straight, and he has any idea that your into him he would probably make an effort if he wasn't so unconcerned with everything, as you can certainly get with enough high quality cannabis. He could also be shy, idk if that's the type of person he is, but if he is, being high wouldn't help the situation at all, and in some cases would make it a lot worse.

 

whenever im high, i usually TRY to avoid hot girls cause ill look like an idiot and say dumb shit lol. it was him not you dont worry about it

 

first are you dude or a chick?username suggests dude.

 

steve19 is a chick..

 

how we supposed to know if you looked hot or not?pictures!!!:devil:

 

i have never been too high to notice a hottie...and i been plenty high...is it possible that you over estimate your hottness on a societal scale?

 

me either.im high as fuck and just seen the hottie walking by with her dog 2 minutes ago :2thumbsup:

 

oops

 

The reason why I'm asking this is because this guy was the one that started talking to me first. We are just aquaintances. And when we first started talking, I was in my sweatpants and a sweatshirt. So I don't know why he'd not notice me or say anything to me when I'm in a corset shirt, skinny jeans, and 4 inch heels.

 

maybe hes one those weird guys thats likes sweat pants..

 

pictures!!

 

and whats wrong with sweatpants??????? :toetap05::toetap05:

 

Too polished and made up can suggest high maintenance.

 

i much prefer yoga pants

 

This.

 

yeah sometimes girls that are all made up like that can really turn me off...especially if i am stoned - i get self conscious that i'm super high and some girl all dressed up and shiz is gettin in my zone

maybe he was expecting you to put the energy you put into your looks into striking a conversation - sometimes that's all it takes

 

Bingo

 

Sorry if this sounds too straight laced and all, but why would you want someone to notice you when they're high?
Surely it would be more of a concern if they were in a stable and sober state?

 

I swear it's WAY easier to talk to chicks buzzed. If this guy was STONED he's not gonna talk to people.. He won't ignore them, but he's not gonna go around talking to everyone.

But idk what some people are talking about, on the come down of a nice bake, you can smooth talk without any effort, it's magic!

But I think he may like you, if he was the first to ever talk to you, that usually means a guy may be somewhat interested in you. I don't just go talking around to girls unless I might see some future in it, unless of course they're there in front of me, and some conversations going on.