talking to girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by genericusername, Oct 6, 2011.

  1. genericusername

    genericusername Member

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    I really never knew how to do it. Girls call me cute all the time but I dont know how to respond. Can anyone help me?
     
  2. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    call them a bitch before they can insult you. that is all.
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    talking to them is just like talking to anyone else. of course, if you're trying to do anything more than talk, you need to do this:

     
  4. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    I have no secret methods. Getting their tongue loosened up with some pot or booze sometimes helps. That way you don't have to be doing all the talking.

    Girls just wanta have fun. Some of them need plausible deniability for their acts, hence, the booze or pot part.
     
  5. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    ask youtube, it has a lot of good answers on this subject.
     
  6. learn2see

    learn2see Member

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    Just talk like you normally would. Don't say anything offensive. Learn "man talk" and "woman talk." Ask youtube for a tutorial. haha
     
  7. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    Gaze dreamily into her eyes. Tell her how beautiful she is,,yadda yadda,,
     
  8. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Just be your sweet self , because a girl will sense if your trying too hard , or your playing at being someone yer not. Get her to talk about herself .
     
  9. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    You should answer with "Cute, in the daytime - but at night I really shine" ;)
    One liners, that provoke a response at least get things started
     
  10. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    Somewhere along the timeline, girls want to see "cute" turn into "he's such an animal", otherwise, they'll end up just coming to you for "a shoulder to cry on" about other guys.

    When it comes to sexuality, they want to see manliness, not just "cute".

    But it's okay to be just friends, if that's all you want.
     
  11. deleted

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    stop wasting your time, finish your education and buy a girl.. thats what they want anyways.. $$
     
  12. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    Though it sounds crass, it's true.

    Unless, of course, they have their own money. Then they just want whatever else you have to offer.

    It's not wrong to want money. To them, as to us, it represents security, and a lower stress level. Who wouldn't want a relatively peaceful, stress-free life? That's what we all want, right?

    But yeah,,it's best to focus on setting up a good financial base for whatever relationship you intend to have. Learning how to make money, and lots of it, couldn't hurt. You'll feel better about yourself if you have a sufficiency that enables you to express material support and generosity. You'll feel like a jerk if you don't.

    It's best if you don't bring children into a life of poverty, and if the situation is suitable, most women would want to have kids, somewhere down the line.
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, then she'll have sex with you instead of the guy who acts like himself.

    has anyone ever actually wanted that?
     
  14. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    hell no!

    if you don't blow me, have drugs for me, or present an opportunity to make money i don't know who you are
     
  15. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Dude, it's super easy. When you're talking to them, just stare at their tits the whole time. They'll know that you're interested. Then, when they tell you some stupid story, pretend to care and ask really open-ended questions like, "well, how did that make you feel?" and, "what do you think?"

    Then they'll think you're a good listener who's interested in them. From there, all you've gotta do is buy them some booze and get them drunk....
     
  16. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Hahahahaha.........


    So true.
     
  17. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    I know you're probably trying to be funny with this comment, but yeah, I for one did expect to have a friend as a mate, a partner, a wife. I regret to say it did not end up that way, due to no small amount of social blindness on my part. I've now been married for forty years to a woman with whom I share a relatively small amount of things in common. We tend to argue more than agreeing on things. It takes a toll.

    It's important that you be friends first, have mutual respect if you intend to live together peaceably, sharing living space.
     
  18. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yes, it was a joke, but one based on truth.

    i think a majority of guys want something like what you describe here. it's the just being friends without the mate/partner/wife part that is no good.
     
  19. Insomniac_Junkie

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    To me it sounds like you guys are answering a question of how to get laid or how to find a wife when the OP just wants advice on conversing with the opposite sex.

    OP, don't obsess about it. Forget about how you're suppose to talk to girls and you'll find yourself beating them off with a stick! Maybe if you're lucky they'll end up beating off your stick. ;)
     
  20. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    They talk???
     

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