I really never knew how to do it. Girls call me cute all the time but I dont know how to respond. Can anyone help me?
talking to them is just like talking to anyone else. of course, if you're trying to do anything more than talk, you need to do this:
I have no secret methods. Getting their tongue loosened up with some pot or booze sometimes helps. That way you don't have to be doing all the talking. Girls just wanta have fun. Some of them need plausible deniability for their acts, hence, the booze or pot part.
Just talk like you normally would. Don't say anything offensive. Learn "man talk" and "woman talk." Ask youtube for a tutorial. haha
Just be your sweet self , because a girl will sense if your trying too hard , or your playing at being someone yer not. Get her to talk about herself .
You should answer with "Cute, in the daytime - but at night I really shine" One liners, that provoke a response at least get things started
Somewhere along the timeline, girls want to see "cute" turn into "he's such an animal", otherwise, they'll end up just coming to you for "a shoulder to cry on" about other guys. When it comes to sexuality, they want to see manliness, not just "cute". But it's okay to be just friends, if that's all you want.
Though it sounds crass, it's true. Unless, of course, they have their own money. Then they just want whatever else you have to offer. It's not wrong to want money. To them, as to us, it represents security, and a lower stress level. Who wouldn't want a relatively peaceful, stress-free life? That's what we all want, right? But yeah,,it's best to focus on setting up a good financial base for whatever relationship you intend to have. Learning how to make money, and lots of it, couldn't hurt. You'll feel better about yourself if you have a sufficiency that enables you to express material support and generosity. You'll feel like a jerk if you don't. It's best if you don't bring children into a life of poverty, and if the situation is suitable, most women would want to have kids, somewhere down the line.
yeah, then she'll have sex with you instead of the guy who acts like himself. has anyone ever actually wanted that?
hell no! if you don't blow me, have drugs for me, or present an opportunity to make money i don't know who you are
Dude, it's super easy. When you're talking to them, just stare at their tits the whole time. They'll know that you're interested. Then, when they tell you some stupid story, pretend to care and ask really open-ended questions like, "well, how did that make you feel?" and, "what do you think?" Then they'll think you're a good listener who's interested in them. From there, all you've gotta do is buy them some booze and get them drunk....
I know you're probably trying to be funny with this comment, but yeah, I for one did expect to have a friend as a mate, a partner, a wife. I regret to say it did not end up that way, due to no small amount of social blindness on my part. I've now been married for forty years to a woman with whom I share a relatively small amount of things in common. We tend to argue more than agreeing on things. It takes a toll. It's important that you be friends first, have mutual respect if you intend to live together peaceably, sharing living space.
yes, it was a joke, but one based on truth. i think a majority of guys want something like what you describe here. it's the just being friends without the mate/partner/wife part that is no good.
To me it sounds like you guys are answering a question of how to get laid or how to find a wife when the OP just wants advice on conversing with the opposite sex. OP, don't obsess about it. Forget about how you're suppose to talk to girls and you'll find yourself beating them off with a stick! Maybe if you're lucky they'll end up beating off your stick.