i can't get over him

My ex and I have been broken up for 2 months. I deleted him from all forms of contact, but I can't get him out of my head! I haven't really dated since either. I tried to reach out last month but it didn't really go anywhere... is he over it? I don't want to try again if I'm going to be rejected.

 

you said you haven't dated... so date.

BOOM

 

It's so hard to find someone though plus I'm in school...

 

stop being so whiny or the next dude will dump you too

 

so you're surrounded by single, horny guys... yeah, you need to move on to a better pick-up spot, like a hospital.

 

some more information might be helpful

I guessing from your previous posts that you were only dating him for about a month or so

why is it that you broke up, and why can't you let it go?

why did you get together in the first place?

it sounds like this was your first/ one of your first relationships. unless you really feel like you had a deep and profound connection to him, and that it was fundamentally a great relationship that could be fixed, you would be better off just forgetting about him and finding someone new, or even spending some time being ok with being single

your bf may have only been in it for short-term sex, so maybe learn some skills that will help you identify bad relationships before you get into them

hope that you can get over him soon

 

I think I did have a deep connection to him, we got together because we really liked each other. I fell for him because of our phone conversations... I couldn't really assess him for his looks until we "officially met" because we came across each other online.

Personally there were different reasons I took into account: 1) I couldn't keep it a secret that we met online forever (which we planned on doing until the 6-month mark or so) 2) I plan on graduating next semester, and I wasn't sure if we would last because we are at different stages in life. 3) I felt like everything was going too fast.

As for him, he probably has other reasons... he also had a mood disorder. I am also hesitant because there might be a new girl, I could still settle for friendship but I don't want to know every update about the new girl.

 

just fuck another dude from the internet...for chrisakes there are hundreds of us out here

 

Yeah but I'm a little tired of internet dating... I came across a few annoying stuck-up guys.

 

ya..i can be annoying...stuck up is a stretch...i dont have alot to be stuck up about...why did you break up...is it the polka dots...polka dots can be very fucking annoying if they are everywhere...do you have more than 1 polka dot pair of underwear?...if the answer is yes then i am afraid its ''you''

you do know a polka dot hair scrunchy is pretty much fashion suicide?...if it matches a belt you deserve to be punched?

 

time.

 

Personally I wanted more of his time, we didn't really spend as much "quality time" as I wanted maybe because of conflicting schedules and living across the city. Plus I felt like it became quite sexual too soon.

 

it occurs to me that many women get men from 'other' sites and then come here to complain about said men...

here's a thought

get the men here

 

Ah, Love - the aftermath of relationships
My advice move on and enjoy life without attachment for a while - if he cares he will come to you, if he doesn't then it's a saving of heartache in the future (along with the consequences that there could be)

Still at school? Gosh I wish I had all those years ahead of me
"Smile" - for "Tomorrow is another day"

 

yeah, since those guys are only on the internet.

 

Unfortunately I met them in person.

 

i always figured internet dating was for the losers in love.

 

Take a women's literature course - if that won't teach you to hate men, nothing will. It certainly worked for me and I am a man (or - I kinda used to be).

 

so are you saying that you broke up with him? and now he doesn't want to get back together but you do?


he may have been great in the phone conversations, but please keep in mind that some guys are pro's at talking a girls panties off

could be that this guy just played you

 

Im not really sure who broke with who. I guess we kind of took a break then never got back. Perhaps he did play me but he was thinking of being serious with me.