I'm a 16 year old female. i think i may love one of my school teachers, i dun really know what love is because i have never been in it before but i think i love him. he is way older then me, i think he's around 34 years old and is married and has young children. is this so wrong? now that i type it out it sounds realli pathetic but this is how i have been feeling lately and i am really confused. does anyone have any advice for me?
hun to me it just sounds like a teenage crush, or fantasy. what oyur feeling is not love its infatuation, obsession. your young and most girls your age get little crushes on their teachers. Im sorry if i am being too blunt with you but it's the truth. Even you said it yourself you dont know what love is.
yeah i am pretty sure that's all that it is. don't worry about being blunt, it's very reassuring to know that it's just a crush. i know it's not a serious attraction to him but i often fantasize about hooking up with him and wonder if it could actually happen. i feel like such a creep, what should i do? just wait for it to fade?
I used to have crushes on all of my teachers and profs when you realize that they are just as flawed as all other guys and they teach because they are a control freak your crushes will cease.
i used to have a huge crash on a business teacher back in secondary school. He was gorgeous!! but i knew nothing could happen between us,but i did my fair share of fantasing (sp?) and whatnot (hehehe) he was just a temporary replacement and when he left i was crushed! but yeah good memories
it's infatuation, and it's completely normal... last year I kept fantasizing about my geology teacher in univ.. not that he was hot, but he was nice and nerdy and if he'd been closer to my age I probably would've tried to make it happen. But, the infatuation ended a couple weeks before the class did, so I didn't have to worry about what would happen once I wasn't in his class. I think it was mostly just hormones... I was single then, after all.
