I'm a dirty rotten cheater

:devil: You're awful.

 

sometimes people are afraid of ending a relationship so they search for another partner in order to produce an event strong enough to cause the break to happen. And sometimes they hope that the new partner will somehow "save them" from the other person

what ever it is

lazy people work the hardest


Oh and sometimes I like a small puff of a ciggarette, but more often not.

 

It is so clear that you want an open relationship. So tell your husband about it. If he does not want it don't stay with him. It doesn't look like you are madly in love with him so it wouldn't be too hard for you to leave him. But don't let him find out accidentally. His violent streak may come back.

Just another suggestion, if you are quite pally with the other guy why don't you just be with him? Why thinking of ending it when its going on so well between you guys.

 

Asking relationship advice from a bunch of people who either never were married or are divorced doesn't sound logical to me. If I wanted relationship advice, I would ask someone who is happily married.

One thing about romantic flings outside of the marriage, they never last. The man you are seeing on the side has flaws too, you just don't see them yet. The fact that he will have sex with a married woman is one of his flaws. After you marry him, if you do, what prevents him from sleeping with the next woman? You sound like you want a monogamous relationship. You are better off remaining committed to your first true love and working through the hard times and making things better.

 

Easy solution. Send him one of your work buddies, wrapped in her school uniform, with a note telling him what you've been up to.

Problem solved.

 

I think they have actually.

still doesn't mean that cheating is a good idea here though

 

maybe she is a half lady, half cthulu stripper

maybe she is lying, and the husband is really the stripper

 

maybe you should talk to a domestic violence councilor or a marriage councilor

 

She didn't actually specify who was doing the drinking and beating. It could have been her...or both of them.

Whatever, I think she needs to man the fuck up and leave the husband because it's clearly not worth abstaining from a customer fuck for.

 

I'm a divorcee although no-one would ever guess it. I'm glad my opinion is valuable to you.

The difference between marriage and a serious or long term relationship is a piece of paper...and I'm sure many of the people replying have been in or are in happy long term or serious relationships. As I said I've been in both, so I'm clearly the ultimate source of wisdom.

 

Right fucking on. I've been in a relationship for 6 years (lived together for 4 of those) and the ONLY reason we aren't married is $$$$$. But you know, my opinion and insight on relationships is null and void just because the government doesn't have us on file as married.

 

ok,

Been married and divorced......... that one was messy from the start, was a long term relationship living together "family". Got married only b/c his parents footed the bill, they wanted it done long story there. But I was always looking, that relationship was doomed tho, I never really was "in love" things happened and I stayed for those reason's till I woke up one day.

Now married again, and still with we just had a 1year wedding anni. We were doing the long term thing as well, we have been together 9 years. The reason we married, we wanted to he had proposed years ago when we were in Canada and shit happened where it just never got done. We wanted to be a little goofy with the wedding and did it on 10/10/10. Was not big at all but fun as we got on tv.


There are a wide scope of ppl around.........

 

don't forget the overpriced crappy party.

 

:rofl:


Too true.