For those of you on this site who think you need to have an erection to orgasm, sadly, (because of age and an illness), I have been cumming for a number of years without a hard-on. Still love it and still masturbate often,just makes life hard, (a deliberate pun) when in comes (again) to feeding it into various love holes. This is not a hard (oh not again) luck story.
I for one absolutely having an orgams, and if for some reason i cant have sex or masturbate normally because i cant get hard i would be interested to know how this works when soft. Great if it can be done.
Same here. I just stroke as normal - it just takes longer. I find that some anal stimulation helps increase the pleasure. Have you tried a penis pump?
I find it just takes a little more work, and I guess dedication, I think having an orgasm has a large amount of mental work involved,you or your body really "need" to cum and if this and mental relaxation is reached,you will orgasm,and beautifully. I lock myself away in a private place,granted I use a number of "toys or tools" to stimulate my two biggest "hot spots",firstly my nipples,(I have had them enlarge over the years), are the best trigger and secondly my anus internally. I won't, at this moment, go in to detail,but all this is easy and quite quick to set up and use, with a little bit of thought playing with my nipples and anus while wanking at the same time is very basic and simple,just think about it, clothes pegs,dildo with a handle that touches the floor etc,I know it sounds complicated and messy,believe me it's not and a great orgasm is reached everytime,what more can you ask. It bothers me not if you think this is kinky,sick or whatever,I have bloody great orgasms on a regular basis,I'm more than happy and sex with myself is bloody good. Thanks for listening and hope it may help someone out there, maybe think of me as you cum. lol PS. one last thing, lube, lube and more lube, inside and out,I use a hand and skin lotion from a "cheapy" shop works well and there is plenty of it,with a pump on top, may even give you soft skin. lol. COME ON MEN,PULL YOURSELVES TOGETHER.
Nothing kinky or sick about it. Ya do what ya gotta do Yes, lube helps a lot. I also find there is a difference between getting hard and arousal. Used to be arousal caused me to get hard. Now I can be aroused but no erection results. If I am aroused I will get a "tingly" feel in my cock though. As long as that happens I can orgasm. Due to meds I am on, however, I rarely ejaculate.
