Is No Oral Sex A Turnoff?

Ok, you're getting situations mixed up.
You said there's no legitimate excuse to not want to receive oral sex. If a girl was sexually abused as a young child, with oral occurring, sorry to burst the ignorant male minds of 2011, but that IS a legitimate excuse for not wanting to receive oral sex.
Thank goodness for sympathetic men in the real world and not on the internet.

And the previous scenario of not wanting to receive oral is a completely different one. I addressed your statement about there being no legitimate excuse, when there is.

And a preference is a good enough excuse

 

when?

i said there's no excuse for not trying if it had never happened before. if it happened as a child, it had happened before.

 

"also can't have a legitimate reason for refusing to try."

I'm pretty sure being sexually abused is legitimate.

Maybe a preference isn't enough for you or a legitimate excuse for not wanting to try and that's fine.

 

I love Sandra Bullock, and I've never had her.

So far as the hypothetical question goes, I will give you a hypothetical answer. Suppose a man would give a woman oral sex, but refused to allow her to give him oral sex, would you find that strange?

I personally would find it very strange. It is off putting when men and women aren't confident enough in their bodies to enjoy sex. There may be reasons for it, but they can be overcome simply by changing the way we think.

 

It's actually more acceptable in the REAL WORLD for men to expect oral sex but not give. So the only thing which would be weird is a guy actually wanting to give oral sex, in which case I don't believe such guy exists because there's always hidden agenda behind giving.
Guy refusing oral sex...yeah, that's a non existent one.

 

vas? Das ist nicht wahr!

 

No entiendo :O

 

I said: what? that is not true!

 

In real world USA it pretty much is haha

On the internet it appears that oral sex is common, but in the real world, not so much. Having had boyfriends, talked to guy friends(unfortunately I'm THAT girl, one of the guys) & having talked to girls with big mouths, it's pretty common for guys to expect oral sex but not give

 

HaHa, the feminist movement started at least 40 years ago. Look how much progress you have made !

 

Hearing this from you and your friends in not even the tiniest fraction of the usa... There are over 300 million people here.

 

It's enough to know it's common and many guys openly detest oral sex, which is fine.
My boyfriend is one of them. I give him oral though and I'm happy. Sex is whatever, not like it's made out to be but he's happy so I'm happy

 

:banghead:

 

my 2nd girlfriend would not let me go down on her but loved to suck my cock. She said she only orgasmed through intercourse. She was a very strange woman and I did miss licking pussy while I was with her.

 

Cool? lol
I don't orgasm through intercourse haha but it's whatever

 

So if you don't orgasm through intercourse and no oral ..........


I've got it Sherlock!!!



She's just so tightly wound up b/c she hasn't had an orgasm!!!! Get that woman laid and tell her her tits are nice!!!

 

I masturbate & no, i'm not tightly wound up, I just enjoy those who answer my initial questions

 

I bet you have very nice tits, too. If I was your boyfriend, I would go down on you in a heartbeat. I guess I'm one of the 2% who likes having a tasty vagina quivering all over my lips.

 

Uh, I actually don't have nice tits but thanks.
But ok...I mean, if we wanna pull out numbers lol

 

If I kiss my wife softly on her lips and look her in the eyes and say "nipple" her nipples get hard and show through her shirt. Do yours do that?