Is No Oral Sex A Turnoff?

If a girl doesn't want to receive oral sex but will definitely give you oral sex and loves to, that's fine right?

She WILL give just not receive, that's not a turnoff right?

thanks

 

it's not a turnoff, but it makes me wonder what the girl's issues are.

 

Not a BAD thing, but yeah, gotta wonder why.

I know a girl with receiving problems (rather intimately) and they definitely seem linked to some emotional baggage of hers that I don't need to be sharing here. I would generally tend to expect the same with any girl of the same opinion of receiving.

 

Sounds like a dream girl to me.

I'm sarcastic and lazy not a misogynist.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

thats a little odd

 

It's just hypothetical. my boyfriend and I don't do oral on me anyways haha

 

And what if it's just a preference?

hypothetical question anyways

 

Yeah?

 

LOL ^^ Agreed. But I will not add my 2 cents to the OP

 

You won't?

 

lol OP didn't like my opinion in the other thread so I though why waste my time


I honestly don't understand how one could not love having oral, I love it when hubby goes down on me. Pure bliss......

 

Can't love something I've never had

 

Yes you can.

 

Not me

 

I believe that you are too rigid in your thinking.

You might benefit from relaxing a little.

Take it easy.

 

I do relax
Thanks for your concern though

 

Sex = for sharing ..... ALL
(If both partners wish the best for each other)

 

also can't have a legitimate reason for refusing to try.

 

So if a girl was sexually abused as a child & wasn't comfortable with receiving oral sex because of how traumatizing it was for her, that's not a legitimate excuse?

And as I said, hypothetical question

 

eh, not really. that's a terrible thing to happen, but eventually one needs to take steps to get past one's past. you can't just never have sex because of childhood sexual abuse.

besides, why would oral sex specifically remind her of this trauma unless it had occurred as part of the abuse? which would then mean it's not something she's never had, and therefore there might be a legit reason to not want it again.