The vibe at gay bars

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by Tetrapod, Oct 3, 2011.

  1. Tetrapod

    Tetrapod Guest

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    I adore gay bars - people being themselves, having fun, and as a woman it is blissfully safe from being hit on or otherwise at risk from idiot boys.

    They gay boys are lovely - really friendly and inclusive.
    However I find the girls are really clique-y. Very difficult to get to know, or even make eye-contact with.

    Last week I was in a gay bar in the next country over. I didn't know anyone and was having a ball dancing (I used to do bellydance and often people compliment my dancing) and eventually a girl pulled me to her table and ranted about how some of the other girls on the dance floor were trying to make a fool of me for dancing alone. I have also had this in the ay bar in my home town.

    What is up with clique-y rude girls at gay bars?! :(
     
  2. skinny.jeans

    skinny.jeans Members

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    It's the same on the guy side, you've just obviously not seen it yet. It's why I avoid 'the scene' ...

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  3. M3z!

    M3z! Member

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    I have yet to go (underage), I should look up gay gatherings in my town...
     
  4. Jerlene

    Jerlene Member

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    I have no gay bars in my town and all the bars and clubs took away their gay nights. It sucks.
     
  5. slammacow

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    I was going to go to a gay club for the first time tonight as a belated birthday present because everyone bailed on me on my birthday but then they bailed on me again! Lol I can't drive and all the gay clubs/bars are in the next city over so the only way for me to get to go is if someone brings me. Lmao this sucks.
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Girls probably can't pick up girls at the gay bar and they can't pick up the dudes either so they sit and make fun of people. Not your burden to worry about. Though this is human nature. Everybody sees someone doing something different and has an opinion on it and true fact, women bitch in groups.
     
  7. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I was wondering about this lately.

    I've been having fantasies about going to one with my girl and hooking up with a guy.

    I dunno that I'd actually do it though, bars/clubs aren't really my scene..

    But I am wondering what gay bars are like for a bi couple, and if bi people are common at them..
     

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