Anyone have a strapless strap on? Me and my gf just got one and we like it but keeps falling out. I've read your msucles have to build up to it and you get used to it. Anyone have one or used one and have any tips?
They really aren't designed to be used without a harness, though some can. They are better described as 'plug in' than 'strapless'. Mostly people find they work with teh wearer lying on her back and their partner sitting on top of them. Be careful with sizing, often they are a little bigger at the base than teh average harness. If you don't have a harness try: http://girlslikethis.tumblr.com/post/2715161172/more-scarf-harness-inspired-by-midori Try getting ben-wa balls to strengthen up the muscles. And let us know how you go!!
We have the Realdoe. We don't use it for anything other than blowjob play. It stays in my girlfriend fine but we find the angle, really the flexibility of the angle, to be too uncomfortable to use.
