I just moved in about a month ago, and I started to use a dating site to meet new people in my area. I met this girl and we texted for 3 days straight. Like constantly. And we even skyped several times. Now it's been a week since we met and I got the chance to meet her in person at her house. Her parents and her older brother was home. She's only 18. And im twenty. How can I go about asking her if she has had sex before? Because I would love to sleep with her. I just don't want to make a move, where she says no, and then its awkward after that. She had a boyfriend before. But I am unsure if she is a virgin. And if she's not, I want to know how long I have to wait. Peace T. O
odd that the topic hasn't come up yet. you could always bring the subject of virginity up and pretend you are (if you're not) or something like that.. or just ask her, would be the easiest and if she reacts badly then you obviously got yourself a shitty girl
Seems a bit of a rush - meeting and greeting 'for real' after a week? and feeling a want and need to jump into bed? what's the hurry? Maybe you should just let nature take it's course and things will occur as and when they should. If you feel you are that desperate that you cannot wait - (and I take it your curiosity over her being a virgin is for her benefit) then it's gotta be: Just ask her
Its not that I want to have sex with her right away. I just want to know if she's had sex before. I guess it was a stupid thread to make. Sorry Peace T.O
honestly the easiest way to ask a girl is i dont want to push any boundaries or make you feel uncomfortable or pressure you into anything.....so im just wondering if this does take the path of sex how far have you gone....if you dont wana talk about it yet thats fine with just dont want to make you uncomfortable.....That would be about the best way to do it and dont rush into sex either with her take it slow but you need to know your boundaries so just ask her
that sounds like a plan. then he can start quoting star wars, and finally confess that he has severe mouth herpes.
3 days of texting and 1 meet up at her parents house is way too long ...you should have asked her on the first text <sarcasm>
