Okay heres the thing, I love having sex with men, and I would only settle into a commited relationship with a guy, or settle down with one, but at the same time I have had sex with a few other females as well, and loved it, once in an fmf threesome and a couple of times just the two of us, I'm also always open to having some,... fun with other girls, anything from mutual masturbation to oral sex to full sex, or just any kind of messing around really. A couple of friends who know this say I should come out as being Bisexual, but despite my ocasional lesbian experiences I still consider myself to be hetrosexual, in the end I don't think it matters that much as I can't see my life really changing wether I do or don't, But I am curious what other people would say I am, so please, any thoughts?
Whether you openly announced you're bisexual or not, if you enjoy sexual relations with the same sex, then you are bisexual. Of course, there's no reason for you to "come out" unless you really want to. But you are bisexual regardless of whether you do that or not.
So you're not heterosexual if you only want to sleep with the opposite sex, but don't seek a committed relationship?
Exactly. There's no difference between that scenario, and the one presented by the OP. And I don't think anyone would call the heterosexual "bi-curious" in that scenario. Someone who is bi-curious is someone who has actually never done anything sexual or physical with the same sex, but has had thoughts about doing so. If you've actually had physical relations with the same sex and you enjoyed it, then you're bisexual, not bi-curious. How can you be curious about something you've already experienced?
I can humor non-native English speakers screwing it up. It's just people who claim they speak the language since birth that bug me.
