My paranoia turned out to be true.

Discussion in 'Paranoid?' started by MunaJadida, Sep 14, 2011.

  1. MunaJadida

    MunaJadida Member

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    I've always worried about people reading what I post online. After my ex-husband and I split, I found out he was reading everything I posted and saving things he thought he could use against me, so I changed my user name. I don't know how, but he found out that one too. Someone (probably the ex) taught my mom how to Google me and sent her things about me that they knew would upset her. She is now reading everything she can find that I post online so that she can use everything I say to show everyone what a horrible person I am.

    I am beyond caring at this point. I'm not changing all my usernames again. If they want to think bad things about me because I'm different, I don't care. I'm doing nothing wrong, illegal, or harmful. So screw them all.
     
  2. I am Rooney

    I am Rooney Visitor

    Theyre probably reading this right now
     
  3. tricknologist

    tricknologist menace to sobriety

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    Yes, all of "them".
     
  4. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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  5. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    tell us shit about them that they wouldnt want strangers to know :)
     
  6. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    You’re not the only one :(

    Every time I hear a phone or cell phone ring on TV I think it’s one of mine.

    I have two cell phones and two landlines and I’d swear one of the four invariably sounds exactly like the one ringing on TV (only, for real) :eek:


    H
     
  7. learn2see

    learn2see Member

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    It's best to trust your gut.
     
  8. learn2see

    learn2see Member

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    oh and p.s., that's not fair for him to do to you at all. I'm sorry.
     
  9. Das Katzchen

    Das Katzchen Member

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    I'm sorry that happened to you. Hopefully, they don't find you again. If so, I think you will have to find new sites, names, ect. to use. Douche bags. Just remember who you are and that people never want to admit the "strange, shitty" side of themselves but love to dog other people about theirs. We all have them. I'm sure you know this kind of info on them and if not... it doesn't matter because there almost always is. Yep, Screw 'em.
     
  10. rainydrops

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    Well, hopefully where you live it's ILLEGAL to stalk and harrass users over the Internet, lol. So, any evidence he wants to use against you will lead him nowhere. They can't do anything, really. Screw em! Live your life the way you want to, including in the virtual world! Report online abuse if it gets out of hand. Just have fun, be safe, and enjoy the fans:) (Plus, a helpful hint in life for any situation is never write, post, or say anything you'll regret. True story. My grandpa was inspecting a construction work and accidentally left his note saying it was a piece of shxt and his boss found it. Not a good idea!)
     
  11. Rugor

    Rugor Senior Member

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    dang thats messed up your own mom using stuff against you but yeah don't care cus either people are cool with you or not. and if people aint cool with you then no point in worrying what they read about you cus they aint cool with you anyway. and dang a mother should always be cool no matter what but lots of bad parents out there.
     
  12. tricknologist

    tricknologist menace to sobriety

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    So, you're saying she should be a rat and snitch on family ?

    I understand that it's a shitty situation, but snitching should never be an option.

    That's also why I have a bare minimum amount of personal info on Face Book, nothing that isn't work and family friendly, and do all of my real on-line poasting anonymously.
     
  13. rainydrops

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    I'm not saying to snitch on her family. I'm saying if things get out of hand and she can't get out of the situation and it turns into a big threat, then she could report it, too, if it got down to the bare minimum. She has the right to privacy, but anything posted for the public or easy to access through the public shouldn't have anything to lead to guilt anyway. Wasn't trying to make it sound like she should go tell people immediately, only if the situation got truly threatening.
     
  14. It's probably for the best. Who needs people who want to hate you in your life? You're lucky they're getting weeded out. Weirdos.
     
  15. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    honey...i found you[again]
     
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    No, they want to cure your accompanying schyzofrenia, byapplying the to me painful thing, i.e. force fitting in as a conformist. I looked like one.:afro:
     
  17. Dude111

    Dude111 An Awesome Dude

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    Good!!

    Its hard to come to this point but when you do,YOU FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!!

    Who cares what others think.... PEOPLE WHO ARE FRIENDS WONT BE SWAYED BY THINGS LIKE THAT!!!

    Im so sorry you went they that :(
     
  18. ChrisFromScotland

    ChrisFromScotland Lang may yer lum reek

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    make sure you dont have keyloggers or such on your computer, get upto date anti-virus and do regular scans etc etc, your online privacy is very important and any breaches of this can be a criminal offence, they sound like real ass holes and tbh its best to just ignore it, like you said you have nothing to be worried about anyway, get wise with your computer though, trust me ;)
     
  19. puffed up in my ford

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    when you sign up for sites that you dont want friends or family to see you on use a different email address for the registration.i have 2 emails i use for registering on sites.this way nobody can google my email to see where i go and if the site like to spam you it goes to an email you check maybe once a year.
     

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