I fell & think like a lesbian but I'm a guy...

Hi everyone;

I'm a little confused; everything started with a fantasy a couple of years ago...with partner(girl) and a starp on...

long story short, I like felling like a girl, I like taking the submissive role, I have fantasies that I'm some type of school girl and I get fucked ( I have lingerie bra's dress etc that we play with that we use when we roll play l enjoy it very much.

Now the thing is that I fell more identify like a girl attracted to others girls ( I fell like a lesbian inside) I don't fell attracted to guys whatsoever, but I do have fantasies that I'm a girl and I'm getting fcked... when we have sex I get hard faster and enjoy it more if I'm "bottom" I like acting like a girl and making sounds etc...

so what's wrong? when I go out I check out other girls, not guys, but I don't think OMG she is so hot I wanna fuck her like most guys will think... I think like if I was her getting fcked...same if I see porn I always see it from a girl point of view...

I only had 1 sexual encounter with a guy years ago before the strap on... I did not like it. it felt strange, guilt and shame... I love women!

what do u think ?

 

If it's only something that manifests itself in your sexual fantasies it's probably just a fetish.

if you feel like a female in other situations then you might be transgendered.

in either case, i don't have that much advice to give since i have no experience with this. you should find someone who has gone through a similar thing to talk to.

and welcome to hipforums.

 

It sounds to me that TG is a possibility here. It's almost inevitable that a TG should either be straight in one gender and gay in the other (unless they're bi in both). So why does everyone assume that a TG will be gay in their birth gender and become (if they go as far as gender reassignment) straight in their acquired gender? It is perfectly possible to go the other way.

Take your time to explore your thoughts and feelings. But don't rule this possibility out.

Try to find out who you REALLY are ... and then make that the life you want to lead.

Good luck :mickey:

 

Well, we know who he quote "really" is... That is, assuming that his post was true... He is a straight male, thinks like most guy when seeing a girl of somewhat attractiveness, however when it comes to intercourse, he enjoys the more submissive role opposed to dominant which he is associating that with more of a female role, which usually it is... I don't see much of a problem, however odd the topic might be, I don't think there is necessarily a problem here.

 

Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that dude. Maybe a little weird to some people, but it's not like you need to seek immediate medical attention because you have unusual sexual preferences.

 

It really is as simple as this. If this is something you only feel during sexual fantasies, then it's simply a sexual fetish and nothing more. If you feel like a female outwith your sexual fantasies, then you obviously have some transgender feelings. It is a myth perpetuated by bigots that all transwomen are attracted to men, so they can link it to homosexuality. But in fact, many transwomen are attracted to women and self identify as lesbians.