Desperate for a boyfriend..?!?

I hated that shit. I was so glad the two times I had a boyfriend in high school (they were each long term) so I didn't have to worry about starting to act like those desperate girls. It was irritating when people were so obsessed with their boyfriends that they just met.

 

In my experience this behavior continues well into college/university and I have been in unebelievably embarassing situations with VERY desperate and lonely women thinking they can snap their fingers and have me a on leash just by batting their pretty eyes. One situation was the worst, complete stranger in the library, wouldn't stop pestering me to be her boyfriend, literally first "conversation" we've ever had . . . such childishness. She was so hurt when all I could express was barely contained disdain for her behavior. Why would I want to be with a woman who throws herself around like that? No matter how beautiful she is. In fact, it's even more tragic when they are shockingly beautiful and treat themselves like the weekly flavor. With self-esteem like that, who needs shallow and abusive guys?

Another gem was the girl who's friends were going around bringing guys from around the library to meet her in hopes that she would like one of them and fuck them. when she saw me she started staring at me and trying to get my attention, eventually dangling her car keys in front of me, "we can go to my place right now if you want" . . . of course every other guy in the library is thinking "damn what a lucky dude" and i'm the one thinking "um, not interested in the least, thank you."

lol . . . such a turn off. I'm not into the whole artificial "chase" that some girls base their lives on but for fucks sake at least learn if i speak english / have a wife / am an alien before you offer to spread your legs. sad thing is all the equally desperate guys who think they are such hot shit for having all these trashy girls around them all the time . . . congratulations, you both sleep with anyone who will give you attention

i always feel like a martian in these situations, i just don't see the world the same way these ne'erdowell MTV kids do

 

It's still like that at college except now it's the guys that want to "get some". I mean, I sit in front of a guy that's constantly talking about the girls he'd bone in my class. :frown:

 

I remember in elementary school, this girl put tissue in her bra so it can look big, just to grab a kid attention. When she realize that not a lot of boys were giving her any, she started crying, and use the tissue in her bra.

 

Dude I cant believe women are so easy in the US, you want difficult women? You want hard work, like VERY HARD WORK to get someone's attention? You want to get rejected in every possible way b4 you get a crappy date? Come to Uruguay lol XD.

Out of curiosity, why didn't you go out with those beautiful chicks anyway? You could still date them, and treat them as they deserve, wait for sex and stuff, get to know each other first etc. Desperate doesn't mean bad person or lousy companion.

 

Give it time and they will see the error of their ways - still it could be argued that the expectation of love is such, that the desire outweighs the sense of realism.
The exuberance of youth can do that to one