Im a 20 year old male. Ive been attracted to women since I was a young teen. I have a girlfriend but recently I have had a few dreams of having oral sex with a few men. Ive woken up the next day finding that I had actually enjoyed the dreams and find myself fantasising to myself about them and have even masturbated after fantasising about them. Am I bisexual or just going through something? thanks
Hello and welcome to Hipforums This is a tough question to answer, but I'll give you some information and you decide. Many people (both males and females) go through a phase where they think they are bisexual or gay (myself included). From what I've been hearing, many males have dreams or fantasize about sex with a male, but this alone does not mean that you are gay/bisexual. I believe to be considered gay/bisexual You must have two things. First, you must have an attraction to a person of the same gender (feeling butterflies in the stomach for example, and not mind having sex with them), and the second is the emotional draw. If you cannot see yourself emotionally drawn to the same sex person you are not bisexual or gay (so no having someone around just for sex is not a relationship). I hope I helped a bit PM me anytime if you have question or just want to talk.
Simple answer yes ur bi but just how bi remains to be seen. Invite another guy into ur relationship and see how u like it
what in the world are you talking about? nothing is either or. i am and i am not simutaneously. fuck western thinking. dont call urself bi. ure sexual. that is all and that is great!
Thiss thread makes me think of that song when the guys like turning japanese I think im turning japanese
you are homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual. one of those three. that's a physiological fact, not a label.
just like people can only be one race. mixed race people dont really exist. and the world is that easy. sigh.
no, the world is not that easy, it's not always black and white and there is overlap with most things in life. but not with everything. there is a physical objective reality to things. take height for example. by adult age everyone has reached a certain height. you can't change it. it's a physiological fact. should we refrain from people 'labeling' themselves with feet and inches because, 'you know it's just a label, don't force yourself into a box', even though it's a fact that can be measured and attested? the same is with sexuality--there are 3 options for people who feel sexual attraction towards other people--they are homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual. they can't be nosexual or both homosexual and heterosexual at once. sexuality isn't a label. it's a fact that again can be measured and attested (which doesn't mean to say that individual's behavior can't deviate from that fact. it can and it sometimes does. but that fact alone can't be exaggerated to the point as to say that everybody is bisexual or just 'sexual' as you put it. some straight guys have had homosexual sex in their life, that does not make them bi). and do you think e.g. guys who are sexually attracted to only guys shouldn't be said to be 'homosexual'? we should just forgo any kind of classification of their sexual behavior even if it is a 100% physiological truth? one those guys themselves agree with no less. you are confusing physical fact with immaterial qualities that are amenable to subjective perception. just because you don't like definitions doesn't mean they don't exist.
please watch the kinsey report. go to a local university and look in the sexuality journals. do some research, inform yourself. even google the history of the LGBT and you will see all the struggles they have gone through trying to make their acronym all-inclusive. shouldnt that be enough to realize that their is something wrong with the labels used upon us? now, i would never encourage anyone to use a label. however i used to be like you and think that we fit into neat little categories. after taking some classes and adopting a sexuality degree at my university, i learnt that my mind had been oh-so-small.
Hardly confined to western thinking He hit the nail on the head there None of that makes any sense, The kinsey scale is a set of numeric labels 0-6. LGBT - each capital letter stands for a label. 7 billion people on the planet, and kinsey was probably right, we can fit them all into 7 different categories. None of us is that unique, thats just what we want to believe The 'be what you want to be' sentiment implies choice. None of those 7 billion get to choose what gets them the most horny, who they crush on the most. And more importantly no one gets to choose which other of the 7 Billion are horny for them
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