Well i had a girl over a few days ago, i told her her boobs are kind of small compared to the norm, which they were, then she got all offended kind of i think, saying Oh older guys PREFER smaller boobies... I didnt say it straight up in that way either i kept it as suttle as i could. She usually hangs around 30 yr olds, but it makes me thiunk, do most people just bs girls just to make them feel like they are perfect always? whats wrong with a little truth here and there? are guys scared or something?? I feel like this girl has been bsd so much that she actually thinks most guys prefer the flatness. Just makes me feel a bit sorry that shes delusional about that, even tho i have no problems with it i just like being real with people, mabey if i only hurt her feelings, then why do i try and be different then? I just lie to girls like there is nothing better then that one person?? What is with the way society is now its like everything is derived straight from bullshit. Opinions? anyone else like to keep it real and not giva fuck?
If I know that someone might be self conscious about something then I won't just point it out to them, unless they ask. Otherwise, I'll be honest if I need to be.
When it comes to a girls appearance, if you haven't got something nice to say don't say it at all. You think she needed to be informed her boobs were smaller that 'the norm'? How would you feel if a girl said 'oh you have a small cock compared to the norm'? Of course if she asks be honest, but you need to have some sensitivity! You'll hurt whoever you feel like for the sake of 'keeping in real'? You don't need to be a jerk to be honest.
Sometimes "being real" makes you sound heartless and just plain self centered dick, which make people not want to hang around you. Unless you'll were just kidding around and she asked you about her boobs size. But if you said it out of the blue and she wasn't expecting to hear it from you, I'm not surprised that she was offended.
You can smoke a jay and tell a tree how real you keep. j/k I don`t think I`d be interested in unrequested comments about my privates, unless we were comparing dick sizes and biggest dick gets sucked. :2thumbsup: Unless she asked, or made some self-congratulatory statement, in which case I couldn`t care less if you spanked her toushy red.
from my opinion i think it's stupid thing that she might be mad from you or something ... coz there is ppl love small boobs and there is some love big boobs .. and i know u don't mean to hurt her .. u just tell her what u said .. so .. nothing to do bro ..
You acted like a kid and she told you so. Keeps it pretty real in my book. If you don't give a fuck why'd you bed her in the first place?
Some guys this some guys that... Some guys like fat girls some guys like lactating girls some guys like ass some guys like fisting some guys like children. Some like milfs..some guys like flat girls. There's someone for everyone.
Yeah but what happened in the end, she just made it into a way that put a positive spin on for her - yeah but older dudes like little ones, apparently Keep it real or not, doesnt make a difference, people will just believe what they want to anyway
ya Ido feel bad i even said that rite as i was saying it i realized right away it wasnt the best idea trust me not making the wisest decisions lately and h8ing myself for it just think im using my quick decision making skills more and more horridly i like the way jocker put it best anyways and vanilla haha so tru
Would you rather her reaction be believing she's less then adequate for any man? I was pretty flat til about my mid 20's Im betting in no time shell have a wrack and you'll wish you never said a thing lol
I don't see why it matters if their flat or enormous. As long as they are attached to a woman and they can feel your loving touch,why point out anything? What could you hope to gain by saying that? Think man,think. The point to me, would be to make someone enjoy the encounter, not piss 'em off. And who appointed you arbiter of boobage? Jeeeeez.
ya glen shes a nice girl but it was too much problems so it got broke off.. and ya scratcho i just like being real with people in the nicest way i can be when the person is just nice to me and stuff. The funny part is the next day she criticized me a whole bunch calling me all immature and shit. Well i took it like a man and thought really hard about my maturity levels after that. See i love getting critisisms about me because then i LEARN. People should all want to learn how to be a better person or at least learn how people think and to be open and honest. I think thats what its all about.
well if there are things about her that is not attractive to you, you should def look for someone thats more your taste
Stupid bitch needs to stop steriotyping men. There's nothing wrong with pointing out their size, so long as you do so honestly, IMO. I personally like just about all sizes, from far sub average to far over average. So fuck that bitch, thinking liking tits has something to do with age or maturity. She can go right back to being taken advantage of by old guys, and tell her so, please......
